1. D_Willieford Blabbermouth

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    have u ever had an online relationship without ever meeting the person?

    if so how long did it last and waht did u do?
     
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    no i never did
     
  3. jeff black

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    The trick with online relationships and never meeting them, is that it can go two ways.

    1) You two stay together for a while, have alot of fun (phone sex/camming etc) and eventually dwindle off finding people in real life and/or becoming good friends.

    Or

    2) You are together, and due to not having any personal connection, you fall apart and it becomes awkward.
     
  4. Principessa

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    No, I don't believe in a strictly online relationship. :no: At some point you two have to man up and meet, otherwise what's the point. :confused: You are just marking time and playing make-believe. :cool:
     
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    I'm not sure if that concept exists at all ;)
     
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    Fuck no! *still working on being more ladylike :08:*
    If the person never plans to meet me, I have no interest.

    That includes people who live nearby that I just do friendly chat with on a regular basis.
    :shrug: I have a low relationship attention span.
     
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    Once again, ....I love this woman!! She's always RIGHT ON!


    However....I will acknowledge that there is a certain attraction to the "fantasy" associated with the virtuality of LPSG and other online "relationships". I can understand the attraction, for sure. I can understand the 'scariness' of meeting IRL.

    I've chatted online with many a member of LPSG...but they can all attest to the fact that, after awhile, I'm DONE. As my sig says,....if you don't want to eventually meet IRL (in real life), then don't waste my time or yours. It doesn't mean I want you to be my BF, or my Lover, or anything else. It just means, MEET IN REAL LIFE.

    AS someone once said (who, by the way, never seemed to make the time to meet IRL)....

    HERE ENDS FANTASY THEATRE. Just meet.



     
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    3 years.. lol
     
  9. HUNGHUGE11X7

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    Several times but I have met about 10 of them and all but one continue to be friends today ! I don't do it as much as I did when I was younger .


    HH
     
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    I have had, and still do have, some very intense online relationships. For most, the possibilities of meeting are remote, given my marriage, the life situations of my online friends, and geography. Some have been just online chat, while others have included phone and cam.

    I find that strictly virtual relationships can be pretty deep and satisfying. However, a shared sense of "man, wouldn't it be great to get together in person one day" is a crucial component for me.
     
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    It started out like that but also ended up meeting each other and from there its history in the making
     
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    For me, I think you need to define 'relationship' a bit better.

    Friendship, yes, I can see that happening, but more? I'm not sure it could work. I mean, Jack laid it out, people just drift away, finding someone in real life. But friendship? Yeah, I can see that being a strictly online experience. Why not? I have friends at work I never see outside of work, and I have friends outside of work I never see at work....I have friends in other states and the only way to stay in touch is email, phone is too annoying, so, someone is online, why not chat it up, lend support, share funnies and all that?
     
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    I have actually met a couple, but on line for me, seems to be the best
     
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    I've never had a serious purely online relationship. A few times I've essentially gotten into a fuck buddy sort of thing online, and I've had many online friendships. I've had romantic relationships start online, but they always went in person pretty quickly. And then I had one in person relationship turn into an online relationship because we both had to move away for school. That one didn't survive the online thing very long.
     
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    I had 2 :) I never managed to get one offline, but in both we really wanted to meet... however with both problems appeared and so we decided to end.

    With the first girl there was a lot of misunderstanding (on her side, and believe me... ridiculous)

    With the second it was a lot better, but when talking about the future we COULD POSSIBLY have together, it turned she demands an entirely open relationship... I wouldn't demand a monogamous relationship, but it wasn't enough, so she said it wouldn't work out, so we should go apart, after some thinking I had to agree.

    Both girls after asking them, say they wouldn't consider what we had a REAL relationship, but I do, probably the difference is they had other relationships offline, wheras they were the only things I ever had, hence me taking it seriously. Luckily in both cases we remained friends.

    It's very hard to work out, but I wouldn't say it's impossible and I certainly wouldn't say I regret having had them :)
     
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    I am sort of having an online relationship now, maybe two. One of them is very intense, and we plan on meeting each other, although there are many, many obstacles. I can't predict how far this will go or how painfully intense it will become (without a real encounter), but I am ready to go on with it, in the hopes that if it is to end at some point, it won't be like each party is simply dumping the other.
     
  17. rob_just_rob

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    Yes.

    A year or so.

    Not much. Thus the ending of the relationship.
     
  18. YoungCock321

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    Yeah I talked to a girl for about a year on msn and stuff, we were really close. she was from my town anyway but we never knew each other because she was younger than me. one day she just asked me to meet her. i was pretty apprehensive about the whole thing to be honest. the main thoughts going through my head was like, would I live up to what she thinks im gna be like? will she even be interested etc?

    Well I got the balls to do it eventually and she accepts me completely. ive been seeing her for like 9 months now it jus shows that these things can work :)
     
  19. curiousvirgin

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    I've been emailing a guy on a weekly basis for about 6 month's now, on a purely friendship basis, just sharing general life stories and beliefs... I don't really know where its going or how it will end... To a certain extent I hope we may meet which is not an impossibility, there are suggestions but nothing concrete. Unless we plan soon for something, nothing might come of it and it would probably just another place to express emotions etc...I don't really even know why I write to him other then the fact that his responses are interesting and seem genuine. Why he would want to write emails pages long to an unknown person across the seas baffles me... but who am I to question what I myself am doing...
     
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    Dont see how an online relationship would work.

    The attage out of sight out of mind seems to apply here
     
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