Only cum with my hand

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  1. D_bgn01vcb

    D_bgn01vcb New Member

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    Quick question......Are there any of you out there that can only cum with their hand.

    I have never cum during intercourse or blowjobs or any means of stimulation. Sure this would be great had I wanted to join the porn industry.

    But it can be a bummer if your partner cant get you of.
     
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    I have the same problem. It's driving me crazy. I think I just jerk off too much. :)
     
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    i've heard if a guy jacks off to much he gets use to the feeling of the hand and has a hard time cumming any other way i can understand that cause you how tight and were to hold
     
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    i wonder what would happen if i stopped jerking for a month.
     
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    . i heard its some kind of masterbation retardation it was on doctor oz when he had the mens health session
     
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    great! I made my dick retarded! lol.
     
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    Sorry bro. You have a severe case of death grip. It sucks.

    You've gotten so used to your hand and being able to fully control every factor of sexual pleasure, tightness speed time of orgasm etc etc that having actual sex is too much of a departure.
    If you don't fix this, you're going to end up dissatisfied with sex or going celibate.

    Look, you're going to have to go cold turkey. No jacking off no porn only sex. Grab her hips and use her like a fuck toy.
    It works.

    There was a time I could fuck for hours....hour and could never cum. Great for her not so good for me.

    When you have to go home to rub one out to porn starring a girl that's not half as hot as the girl you just banged the doors of...that's when you've hit rock bottom.
     
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    It took me forever to get used to other sensations besides my own hand. That particular technique was done for so many years that actual contact with another person was very disappointing to me for a few years. Partners just didn't give me the same sensations I was so used to.
    It certainly was not a tightness issue. My hand caressed the underside of dick in all the right places perfectly (and very gently - I like it S L O W) along with the top side just behind the head. My first times having oral sex on me was odd - I couldn't stand the feel of the tongue which felt like sandpaper and the lips had no feeling what so ever. I had to really lay off masterbation and get used to more sexual exploration with another person.
     
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    I had this problem when I made the switch from jerking off to "real sex"... I just couldn't cum with either pussy or head. It was easy to fix though. I stopped jerking off for a while (3x a day at the time) and during the sex act, tried to focus my attention on what felt good, not how it felt different from my gorilla grip. Also paid lots of attention to kissing and breast work WHILE THRUSTING... again, it refocuses your attention. Now I rarely have problems cumming during sex.
     
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    Having my nips squeezed hard by my partner helps me to cum every time.
     
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