Only Dating Guys Who Don't Want A Relationship

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I have dated men who don't want a long term relationship, elusive guys who are not very into talking. This has been like this for the last couple of years and it's become a pattern. Is it a thing with any else too, I wonder, because whenever someone who shows interest in me, I push them away and end up with a guy who doesn't show much interest.
 
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I have been dealing with the same thing. I made it abundantly clear to any guy I date that I want a relationship and they would say yeah me too. Then, the I am not looking for anything right now. I just want to fuck..is what they tell me. Not willing to talk, just sitting awkwardly. I would say. Thanks, but I'm looking for more than a sex session....not saying anything wrong with a sex romp, but I need more.

Well, if you're looking for something more and more conversation and the guys are not interested in them. You have dodged a bullet..so to speak. You know what you want and communicating with your partner is big for you and everyone else. Keep your head up and keep working on your success and commitment and that person will be there and will talk to you..
 

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When I met my partner, it was for a purely sexual hookup. I wasn't looking for anything else at the time. After we both got off, we started talking. And we both exchanged phone numbers before we parted ways.

A few weeks later, I wanted to go out for drinks but all of my friends weren't available. So I saw his phone number and called. We went for a few drinks. Had a great conversation and we both agreed that we were only looking for friends.

We continued going out for drinks and having sex as friends only for 6 months. Finally we realized we were more than friends. We've been together for almost 12 years.