Ooo, Ooo that smell, Can you smell that smell?
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madame_zora
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Actually many of the opinions that a woman's body odor is unpleasant have their mysoginistic origins in the Bible. It is seen as "unclean" to have sex with a woman (gee- wonder what the objection could be to being homosexual then?) which has perpetuated the downward glance at women in general. It is very hard for people to mentally overcome steroetypical views that were ingrained in childhood, so some men live with these feelings for the rest of their lives, like Robert Fish. To say that oral sex with a woman is "fundamentally wrong" is a fundamentalist view, to be sure. I guess it really just depends on how you view sex in general, but you can rest assured that I would never consider having sex with a man who felt that way about my body.
InsertHere
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And if every women felt that way, I bet the men would change their opinions fast!
I know that this really isn't the oral sex topic (in fact, I think I've already posted in this thread a month or two ago)... but I gotta get something off my chest here.
I can recall at least 2 or 3 situations in my life where I've heard guys I know come right out and say that they basically consider cunnilingus to be beneath them. If I remember right, there was even an episode of the Sopranos where none of the men would fess up to performing such an act.
I do not get this thinking AT ALL... What makes you so special, especially in this day and age, to take and not give? I remember an acquaintance of mine saying something like, "my head stays at eye level at all times," with his girlfriend in the room. And she just laughed it off, like it was normal for him to come out and say this. And maybe it is, I might be totally wrong.
I always thought the variance in the smells and tastes in the female genitalia was similar to that of male cum â but Iâm probably entirely wrong on that... Perhaps if there is a foul smell, that is clearly an 'unclean' one, maybe then I can understand not doing it⦠otherwise, if you don't find it so bad for your significant other to digest your juices, than why can't you do the same.
I love going down on my partner, even more so than when she goes down on me. Throughout my adolescence, it was always the thing that intrigued me most about the whole act of sex, and by the time I was first with someone, I was more interested in seeing if I could get a girl to climax with my tongue than with my penis.
But I guess I canât change the way people think, and all this talk about it is making my mouth water⦠so Iâm gonna sign off now and go against the teachings of the Bible for like the 100th time this week⦠and BTW, sorry for the angry tone of this post
I can recall at least 2 or 3 situations in my life where I've heard guys I know come right out and say that they basically consider cunnilingus to be beneath them. If I remember right, there was even an episode of the Sopranos where none of the men would fess up to performing such an act.
I do not get this thinking AT ALL... What makes you so special, especially in this day and age, to take and not give? I remember an acquaintance of mine saying something like, "my head stays at eye level at all times," with his girlfriend in the room. And she just laughed it off, like it was normal for him to come out and say this. And maybe it is, I might be totally wrong.
I always thought the variance in the smells and tastes in the female genitalia was similar to that of male cum â but Iâm probably entirely wrong on that... Perhaps if there is a foul smell, that is clearly an 'unclean' one, maybe then I can understand not doing it⦠otherwise, if you don't find it so bad for your significant other to digest your juices, than why can't you do the same.
I love going down on my partner, even more so than when she goes down on me. Throughout my adolescence, it was always the thing that intrigued me most about the whole act of sex, and by the time I was first with someone, I was more interested in seeing if I could get a girl to climax with my tongue than with my penis.
But I guess I canât change the way people think, and all this talk about it is making my mouth water⦠so Iâm gonna sign off now and go against the teachings of the Bible for like the 100th time this week⦠and BTW, sorry for the angry tone of this post
madame_zora
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InnocentBystander, if more men felt like you, there'd be more happy relationships! Give AND receive is the best formula, in my opinion. I'm not even that into receiving oral sex, but would never have sex with a man who WOULDN'T do it. I love giving head and really focusing on his cock, but I wouldn't feel like gratifying a man who viewed me as "unclean".
InsertHere, we women should really stick together on this one (pun only slightly intended). More often than not, we are doormats and allow men to treat us badly. How many times do we internalize negative opinions of ourselves until we feel like shit. No wonder so many women are seen as "frigid". Okay, so this is not the right forum for the "Liberated women of the world untie" speech, but you get the point.
InsertHere, we women should really stick together on this one (pun only slightly intended). More often than not, we are doormats and allow men to treat us badly. How many times do we internalize negative opinions of ourselves until we feel like shit. No wonder so many women are seen as "frigid". Okay, so this is not the right forum for the "Liberated women of the world untie" speech, but you get the point.
SL55///AMG: I noticed after cumming inside my ex's pussy a lot...it seemed to odor up...my solution was to shower and then go down. Dont forget...your dick can be dirty too and cause infections...especially if it is bigger it gets bacterion in deeper.
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Well SL55!
That is a novel concept! As a matter of fact many women do get urinary tract and vaginal infections from men that are not as careful themselves.We dont want this to be a battle of the sexes, but because this is a very intimate act that requires trust on each side one has to try to be tactful. If you find something you dont like you dont have to "go there" but you should try to be kind.
Mme Z. I love ya, but as far as that being a fundamentlist attitude, I think more things get to be assigned to fundamentalism than they can truly take credit for. The Bible itself says "The marriage bed is sacred and undefiled" so if both partners want to do that "it ain't nobody's business, if they do"! I am sure I would get an "Amen!" from even some fundamentalists. YOU all know who you are on board. Can I get an amen? LOL!
As for the Soprano's complement, remember that even though Tony has people killed ,cheats like a big dog, and commits just about every mortal and venal sin, I am sure in his reality he is a "Good Catholic" and thinks doing it is a "sin". Not receiving it, mind you ,but doing it yes! LOL! Also there may be some macho dominance /submission crap going on too. Also dont forget garden variety selfishness! LOL!
Naughty
Well SL55!
That is a novel concept! As a matter of fact many women do get urinary tract and vaginal infections from men that are not as careful themselves.We dont want this to be a battle of the sexes, but because this is a very intimate act that requires trust on each side one has to try to be tactful. If you find something you dont like you dont have to "go there" but you should try to be kind.
Mme Z. I love ya, but as far as that being a fundamentlist attitude, I think more things get to be assigned to fundamentalism than they can truly take credit for. The Bible itself says "The marriage bed is sacred and undefiled" so if both partners want to do that "it ain't nobody's business, if they do"! I am sure I would get an "Amen!" from even some fundamentalists. YOU all know who you are on board. Can I get an amen? LOL!
As for the Soprano's complement, remember that even though Tony has people killed ,cheats like a big dog, and commits just about every mortal and venal sin, I am sure in his reality he is a "Good Catholic" and thinks doing it is a "sin". Not receiving it, mind you ,but doing it yes! LOL! Also there may be some macho dominance /submission crap going on too. Also dont forget garden variety selfishness! LOL!
Naughty
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