I just read an interesting article wherein a 'sugar mama' (32 year old woman) allows her toyboy (20 year old boyfriend) to 'sext' other women (mainly from premium rate numbers) in order for him to "feel masculine" and basically to vent any sexual frustrations that he might have. It seemed a little strange but I think most men enjoy a bit of wordplay with the opposite sex (sometimes sending pictures, as her boyfriend did). They set out rules such as she is allowed to see his phone whenever she wants, he has to change the women he texts every week. And it seems to work for them. What do you think? I thought it was crazy but if more women were so understanding about the male need to feel sexually desirable maybe less relationships/marriages would fail. Although I don't sext, I do like to browse dating websites, not interacting with any of the women, just masturbating to the odd cleavage pic or sexually exciting, well written profile. If only my ex had understood that and not jumped to the conclusion that I must be cheating :redface: lol. Maybe I need to get me a sugar mama.