Just wondering what others thought about them. No right or wrong answer here. Especially curious to hear from straight peeps; think they are far less frequent than with gays. Though I have seen some gays debate this in a nasty way in the past.
i gotta say,i had a very bad experience with a lady that had an OPEN MARRIAGE! it appeared her huby was fine with the idea as long as HE was the only one getting action.i later discovered his other problem was his 4incher.hmmm.that would explain her extreme tightness!:wink:Just wondering what others thought about them. No right or wrong answer here. Especially curious to hear from straight peeps; think they are far less frequent than with gays. Though I have seen some gays debate this in a nasty way in the past.
Then, why ask?
I also see problems with the long term success of an open relationship, for some people it works (the minority) for most couples one of them has been pressured into it, they were basically given the choice of going along with it willingly or their partner was hellbent on doing it so would anyway. Of the couples I've known who embarked on a open relationship none of them were still together three years later.
I don't like them, I don't see the reason for them, and I don't think they work.
I don't like them, I don't see the reason for them, and I don't think they work.
A little background on why I asked.
A gay couple I have been friends with recently revealed they have an open relationship. They have been together for almost 20 years and their bond seems quite strong. Was a bit shocked when they told me.
Also, years ago, a guy I was becoming close to indicated he thought they were cool. He was fun, masculine, hot and interesting. My reaction at the time likely killed our relationship. He asked me to go with him to the "Crew Club" to have multi person sex. (you DC gay folks know about this place)
Am more open to the idea now I guess. Do whatever works best for you. I don't judge. Still not sure I would want to "go there", but wanted to see what others thought.
I only know one straight couple that does this. Er, the husband is probably what you would call "bi curious", but the wife is cool with it.