Opening Up A Marriage Sexually - Does It Really Work?

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i live my bi-side secretly as i just need to experience this side of me sometimes. yes, i know, i have my reservations about that behavior too, but overall i have to be true to myself. we got only one life. as it would be a "no-go" for my wife there is no other way in my eyes.

i wonder if there are any reports of people who opened their marriage for living all sides of their sexuality openly. does it really work to have an open marriage when you have children at home etc.? how does it change a marriage when it's open sexually, does it still feel like you're really fully loved?
 

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I'm a gay guy who's been throupled for a little over three years now. Not what i expected. Started as a threesome and escalated. We all love each other and are happy. There are moments where I feel like we aren't as close as two people might be but then we reconnect and I realize its just that we were preoccupied with work or something like that. No jealousy on my or my husband's end at all. I'll watch the two of them go at it anytime. It turns me on. I also mess around with our third on my own. The guy who has joined our relationship seems a little hurt when my husband and I mess around on our own. We've been together for 18 years so there may be some insecurity there. We've talked about it and it's not a huge deal. He says hes just paranoid because of a past relationship he was in. I wouldn't be comfortable having a marriage more open than this though we all did hook up with a guest at a party we had and that was fun so who knows. I'm just a perv . Good luck!
 
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