Openness with housemate and best friend

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  1. hungasian

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    I was just wondering how open you guys are to talking about sex and penis size ect with your friends, particularly straight friendships.
    My best friend and I share a 3 bedroom place with another guy. Before moving in together, we’d often sleep over at each other’s places in our underwear in each other’s bed. I pretty much considered him to be part of my family.
    We both have girlfriends and give each other very detailed accounts of our sex lives, such as how often we do it, how long we last, our and our girlfriend’s favorite positions ect. While we’re both pretty horny buggers, both averaging at least 7 times a week, I win in endurance…. at least 45mins for second time. Have to admit….I sometime felt sorry for our other housemate :tongue:
    We watched porn together, and even shared our homemade videos. We’d obviously get aroused and masturbate abit, it was always under clothed. While we’d both seen each other hard, we’ve only seen each other in the tapes. We talk openly about size and our performance in the videos, even share tips. And I’d be lying if I didn’t tell you that I’m pretty proud to be larger than him. I’m just over 7”..7.25 to be exact which is pretty large for an Asian, he’s 5.25”. He’s also seen me floppy..varies b/w 4-5” and comments about how lucky my GF is. Pretty open with my other housemate too…..I’m known as the large one in the house.
    Anyway, are other straight guys this open with their friends?
     
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    i'm more gay than straight, but I don't talk about it directly other than online or with a partner. I often joke about it with gay friends, but would never feel comfortable with straight friends.. guess I grew up trying to hide my thoughts about cocks with straight guys in order to "fit in", that especially included talking abiout my own member. Strange really, cos online I love being an exhibitionist!! lol
     
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    I lived with a girl and a guy for a year in Collage and we often walked around in nude to and from shower and what not. We never sat around in the nude but would play video games or watch movies in underwear late, or cartoons in the morning. I fooled around with the girl a couple of times but the other guy never knew. She would often joke about how small he was. You could always tell when someone was having sex none of us were all that quiet. Being a media student I got to play with alot of fun toys and we would often fool around and show each other. Often had some good parties that ended with some sort of sexual event/stories to be told. Most of the people I am friends with would never hear any of this and other roommates were not this open. I have a couple though that have been around for other events and more involved. I think it greatly depends on who you are and your friends. I definitely act differently around various friends and people.
     
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    I am always fully clothed, but I'll free ball in mesh shorts or those scrub shorts that are knee high, with a button on the fly. Def. bulge, but full coverage. When we all get drunk, and some girls are over, they ask about size, and im honest, nothing to be afraid of :D.
     
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    We had a pretty naked household, sometime we'd walk naked around the house, and my friend would sometimes come into the bathroom to brush his teeth etc. this ever happen to anyone else?

    Anyone else share any homemade videos with thier friends? about 4 of mine have seen me and my girlfriend in action. Only ever seen my best friend's ones.....we're the only ones to admitt to doing them too.
     
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    Me and my mates never talked about abything like this.

    I've always seen the area that i live in a bit prudish, i'm interested to know as i have been looking at moving to melbourne (shared house due to lack of cash)
     
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    I'm from Melbourne myself, it's a great place to live. You get a mix of people over here, I'd say about half of people in the locker rooms would go naked....tend to be the older ones though.

    I think people are getting more conservative about sex and stuff these days, not many people to talk to....unless its over the net :)
     
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    yeah hence why i have joined here.
     
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    I have some good friends with who we talk openly about sex and girls. But we don't see each other naked that much, unless we're drunk.
    And we also don't show each other homevid's or something, but we discuss every detail of sex.

    I think it depends on where you live. I live in The Netherlands and here some primary schools are, on probation, giving sex education to children from 5 to 12 years old.
    That might be a little too early, but it shows that it depends on where you live whether or not people are conservative about sex.
     
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    I am straight but my I have several friends over the years I have been very open with. There are five friends I have been particularly open with. We would work out together, shower, steam and sauna together naked. Frequently double dated. Sometimes we would drink and hot tub later naked, hanging out for hours naked. It was no big deal. We would talk about detailed sex. We have even done threesomes and foursomes (two guys and two gals having sex in same room).

    On occassion, if the sex story is good enough, I would pop a boner while hot tubbing, as have a couple of them, and we would joke about how good the story was. Similarly, we have watched porn and been visibly turned on. I have even jerked off with one of them in the room doing the same thing. I guess the point is that if two guys are comfortable in their sexuality, nudity, hard ons and even JO at the same time is cool. No touching, or any other bi stuff has occurred nor would it. I enjoy the freedom I have when with these friends and I know they are friends for life.

    As I get older, I doubt I would be this open with a new friend, but having grown up with this group, I don't think my relationship with them will grow conservative as we age.
     
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    Well said luge, it's great to have friends that you can be open with. I love being able to comfortably talk about sex and size, especially when it's with people that your really good friends with. When watching porn for example, I like to hear what others think such as....that position lookds good...I want to be hung like that guy....hahah that guy can't even get hard.

    I think its a healthy way to get along and find out more about urself.....isn't that why we all come to lpsg.....to be open about these things and find more about ourselves. If we were less uptight, I see it as a good form of male bonding

    I've never done a threesome or foursome, would love to try it. We came pretty close to having a threesome once, I talked to both of them before about it and one night my best friend, girlfriend and I were sleeping on the same bed and all wanted to do it....but there was another friend in the room so nothing happened :(
    He has a stable girl friend and our girl friends don't really get along so a foursome's out of the question.
     
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    Anytime I ever lived with a girl, we would spend time naked around each other.

    It's always been one of the perks for me!
     
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    Yes...my H.S. friends which is composed of a small group of best buds talk openly about this stuff, some of them are straight, bisexual and gay, and one of the gay guys is my ex-boyfriend, Chris. All of us played varsity soccer, and some of us ran track or wrestled too, so we ball were able to establish a close relationship early on.

    After H.S. I established the same type of friendships in college with some of my mates on my lacrosse team, it also helped I was the team captain for a two year stretch also.... My frat brothers and I got pretty close too....and most, but not all of them were bisexual, or gay anyway...so talking openly was no problem...
     
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    Just an open question to everyone.

    Do you think you'd be more open to other guys if your gay or straight?

    For me, I'm would have to say that straight guys would be more open, but that it highly depends on how much of an exibitionist you are. For exibitionists....I would say that gay guys would be more open towards each other.
     
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    I'm a nudist - probably since chilhood - anyway - my friends know about that and it is no big deal for me to be nude when they visit. As far as I can tell they have no problem - they do come back - but perhaps I'm also an exhibitionist too. I'm naked as often as possible.
     
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