I am a very sexual person. To be honest most people probably are. But I am just as easily pleased with a good warm cuddle all night long. I am not possesive but do enjoy a willing partner wanting to hold me or me them and not feel like we need to give it up. As if it was a precurser to sex. In the end it is intimacy that is shared and that goes lots further than just sex. So, what do you think?