Opinion about Cuddling...

What is your preference

  • Cuddle no sex

    Votes: 15 24.2%
  • Cuddle only to lead to sex

    Votes: 20 32.3%
  • Sex only and turn over

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Cuddle only AFTER sex

    Votes: 25 40.3%
  • Sex and go home

    Votes: 2 3.2%

  • Total voters
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I am a very sexual person. To be honest most people probably are. But I am just as easily pleased with a good warm cuddle all night long. I am not possesive but do enjoy a willing partner wanting to hold me or me them and not feel like we need to give it up. As if it was a precurser to sex. In the end it is intimacy that is shared and that goes lots further than just sex.

So, what do you think?
 

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I said only lead to sex because every time I cuddle, I end up getting hornier than hell and my dick gets hard enough to cut diamonds, not really but I do get ragingly hard when cuddling.
 

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I voted 'cuddle no sex' because I do truly believe in just cuddling and would love to have an evening just cwtched up on the sofa with a guy!

That said, in reality, I'm so bloody desperate that if I ever got to cuddle a bloke I'd defintiely be hoping it led to sex :cool: :rolleyes:
 

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My choice would be "cuddling" and sex optional after. Actually I'd want to pick more than one choice.
 

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Well there is not cuddle before and after option so I'm out. I'm all about the cuddle, although (I'm channeling my inner Brodie) I often have a hard time with my current girlfriend as she'll want to spoon all night. On the one hand I love having her curled up n my arms while we're hanging out watching TV, while I'm trying to sleep, I can never figure out where my other arm is supposed to go.

...I hope this isn't a harbinger of what's to come in our relationship.
 

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I didn't see my desired choice on the pole of sex and then cuddle.
I love having sex and then having the woman in my arms or draped
over my body. i love sleeping close. i enjoy being a 'close sleeper'.
 

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tough choices...
I used to never want the 2 together...I'd either want 2 cuddle OR have sex and then hit the road...
but now I'm not averse to cuddling after sex...
 

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wheres the option for;
some days just cuddle and make out... then some time let the cuddling lead to sex and be part of it, then cuddles after sex..
and some days just go at it so bad we forget to cuddle
 

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There was no option for me! I agree with the OP, I'm perfectly comfortable cuddling with nothing sexual ever coming from it. When sex is involved, I like cudding before and after, both. It seems that a vast majority of the men I dated felt that cuddling was a precursor to sex. They didn't seem to feel that they could just hold me and be content with that.
 

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There was no option for me! I agree with the OP, I'm perfectly comfortable cuddling with nothing sexual ever coming from it. When sex is involved, I like cudding before and after, both. It seems that a vast majority of the men I dated felt that cuddling was a precursor to sex. They didn't seem to feel that they could just hold me and be content with that.

youve been datin the wrong guys :wink: