Cuddling before and after sex.
same. My ex was not a cuddler. Odd you didn't have this option, but anyways.
In reality, I can, and have cuddled w/o sex, but last time we tried, we cuddled for about 2 hours, and then it went from smoke to fire. All in all I think the whole thing lasted 4 hours.
What I mean, as others said, it is *hard* to cuddle, without havign sex, unless you are really tired or drunk.