This is a hard topic for me to broach but here goes.Please no bashing on this. Groundwork first. I normally do not advocate cheating on a spouse but I have found myself in a position I am not sure I know what to do with it. I am a very sex driven female and I love slow sensual lovemaking.(sex period) I am married to a wonderful guy bit he has ED and on Prozac, and an eversion to sex due to past sexual abuse. The more intimate we get, the harder for him to make love. I understand this, and we have seen counselors. It is just how things are at this point. I , however, am left struggling with my sexual frustration which masterbation does not abate. The feel of a mans hands touching the body, kisses, smells etc are all apart of it for me. I have thought of lately getting myself a guy just to satisfy my sexual urges but also feel like a horrible person because of this. Any thought as to what you might do in this situation?