Hi everyone, this is my first post Can I get some opinions on a really strange argument? Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. I love him to death but he has this issue with my past fuck bud that I was with for 6 months before we were dating. Apparently when my current boyfriend and I started dating he asked me how many times this previous guy and I had anal sex and I told him 2 times (though I don't remember saying this). Recently I told him it was 7 times because he always asks about this guy. There's a chance I did tell him 2 times because we still didn't know each other very well and I didn't want to spill all the details about past ppl at once. In any case, I told him I'm sorry for not remembering the exact number of times I had anal sex with this other guy. Now the issue is that he is making a HUGE deal about the fact that I had sex with a guy 7 times over a 6 month period (plus a few times we just did bjs). He thinks this is just a shocking amount of sex to have and that I'm somehow this used, worn out piece of meat. So basically I want to know your opinions…is having sex with a guy 2 times vs having anal sex with a guy 7 times really a huge difference? And is having anal sex 7 times over a 6 month period really a 'shocking' amount of sex as he put it? Also, I keep telling him that we shouldn't be discussing all these details about past guys because it just creates conflict and jealousy but he keeps asking me anyway. What are your thoughts on talking about past guys when you are in a relationship? And should the fact that in the beginning I told him we had sex only 2 times really be a big issue now? Thanks for your replies!