Opinions on using a fleshlight on your guy

[Shackleford]

Does anyone have any experience with these devices? If so, what do/did you think of it?

 

[693987]

Thus far all my experiences of using toys with a partner have been to penetrate someone, not be penetrated by someone. I do think a Fleshlight may be a bit on the bulky side. I have had a few people I know who recommend/enjoy the Tenga Eggs, but none of them were folks I talked in detail with. Not sure and don't care where they fell on the size spectrum, so depending on your endowment, ymmv. They're on the relatively inexpensive side though, and are disposable, so if it was something you wanted to experiment with you wouldn't be out a lot of cash.

@Tattooed Goddess is more up on sex toy stuff than I am, though. I haven't written reviews and so on for years, and she works at an adult store.

 

[693987]

Pssst, y'all may wish to read more carefully in the future. This was posted in the Ask a WOMAN section. Not ask any random dudes who feel like responding section

Means the original poster wanted insight specifically and exclusively from ladies for this..

 

[Shackleford]

Pssst, y'all may wish to read more carefully in the future. This was posted in the Ask a WOMAN section. Not ask any random dudes who feel like responding section

Means the original poster wanted insight specifically and exclusively from ladies for this..

Thank you!

I can find a review on the product itself any number of places. I appreciate the input to that end, but that's not my question, which is more specifically spelled out in the thread title: What do/did women think about USING IT ON YOUR GUY. Is it fun for you? Did it just make you feel ridiculous? Was it better in some ways than a plain ol' handy? Worse in other ways? THAT's the kind of stuff I'm interested in knowing.

 

[Shackleford]

Also, thanks for the bit about the Tenga Egg, @Fade. I'd never heard of those before. I just checked out some videos on it. Interesting.

 

[693987]

Thank you!

I can find a review on the product itself any number of places. I appreciate the input to that end, but that's not my question, which is more specifically spelled out in the thread title: What do/did women think about USING IT ON YOUR GUY. Is it fun for you? Did it just make you feel ridiculous? Was it better in some ways than a plain ol' handy? Worse in other ways? THAT's the kind of stuff I'm interested in knowing.

Well as far as good, bad, ridiculous, whatever, I'm fine with using toys on a partner. Their pleasure, with varying amounts of effort on my part = good. I can speak to that part at least, though the toys I've used weren't the getting penetrated sort. It's nice to mess around with sensations different than my hands, mouth, whatever provide. I do find having toys used on me can make me feel a little weirdly self-conscious at times. So that's something to consider too, if you've not had a toy used on/with you before.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

The male masturbating toy I got my husband is the Zero Tolerance XL Vagina. It is the biggest we have at the store. He still tore her in 4 places on the first use. Thankfully she has a 5 year warranty. I showed him several flesh lights and he didn't show an interest in them. The flesh tone on the flesh light is more of a plum shade than real skin.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Oh and he uses it with me and without. It saves me some energy during a hand job or I can squeeze it between my thighs and he can simulate sex on me.

 

[Shackleford]

Yep. You just made me Google "zero tolerance vagina," and I love you for that.

Thanks for the input. The "saving energy during a HJ" part was something I thought might possibly be an upside to using such toys.

 

[rtg]

Does anyone have any experience with these devices? If so, what do/did you think of it?

I've asked an ex or two in the past if I could buy them one but they said no... but I'd be keen to give it a go

 

[MickeyLee]

i bought the boy a fleshlight and several sleeve a couple years back
*there is even a thread about me seeking advice on which to buy *

when i first got access to the boy's peen i was terribly interested in all the things you could do with a penis
cuz i don't have one and, well, playing a penis is kinda awesome

we don't play with the sleeves as much anymore
more for solo enhancement and face to face vid time while either of us are traveling

 

[deleted924715]

I've asked an ex or two in the past if I could buy them one but they said no... but I'd be keen to give it a go

Me too! Most sex toys I'm pretty 'meh' about, but I would like to play with a fleshlight

 

[Busymom]

I bought one for my husband a few years ago along with a Bigger more "anatomically correct" toy Lol as well. Got them during my second pregnancy b/c my sex drive dropped right out on me. He usually uses his toys on his own, but sometimes he'll want some companionship. I enjoy using it on him. It's easy to use & its nice to be able to give him a handy and not have to worry about KY & Jizz clean up.

 

[nailz]

I'm aware that men masturbate regardless of how much sex they're getting, but normally I don't see the appeal of masturbation aids when he has an fully functional girlfriend (with an even more active sex drive than his) who has never turned him down

But we've been apart for a month.. so maybe I should have gotten him one, I guess it would have come in handy

 

[latinabella]

Does anyone have any experience with these devices? If so, what do/did you think of it?

I bought one to my Hubby once but it was a total waste of money. His dick was to big for it and couldnt fit which I thought was ridiculous and did not believe him at first. So what was initially meant to be a fun thing ended just badly.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Thank you!

I can find a review on the product itself any number of places. I appreciate the input to that end, but that's not my question, which is more specifically spelled out in the thread title: What do/did women think about USING IT ON YOUR GUY. Is it fun for you? Did it just make you feel ridiculous? Was it better in some ways than a plain ol' handy? Worse in other ways? THAT's the kind of stuff I'm interested in knowing.

I found that I preferred watching him use it, rather than using it on him, and he had several types. Eventually I was just pretending to enjoy watching him use it. Sometimes I'd come home and find that one had been cleaned and left out to dry, which meant that once again I had not been chosen and would not get laid. And my friends keep wondering why I insist on divorcing him. Now, there's too much baggage attached for me. I find a fleshlight, I'm gonna put peanut butter in it and let my dogs have it.

For what it is worth, I found the visuals in the ice models interesting, and I liked his response to the Suck-U-dry from the sex in a can series. I also ised to love Fleshlight porn. It's just soured for me now though.

 

[286798]

I bought one of the "stamina training unit" ones for my "wasband"... both for the intent of his lasting longer and because we were living in different states for a while. I liked using it on him, but it was kinda bulky as someone else said, and I prefer using my mouth.

FWIW- It didn't help his stamina. He didn't care to use it because my pleasure wasn't a priority to him. Appropriately, he's no longer my priority.

 

[1031939]

I found that I preferred watching him use it, rather than using it on him, and he had several types. Eventually I was just pretending to enjoy watching him use it. Sometimes I'd come home and find that one had been cleaned and left out to dry, which meant that once again I had not been chosen and would not get laid. And my friends keep wondering why I insist on divorcing him. Now, there's too much baggage attached for me. I find a fleshlight, I'm gonna put peanut butter in it and let my dogs have it.

For what it is worth, I found the visuals in the ice models interesting, and I liked his response to the Suck-U-dry from the sex in a can series. I also ised to love Fleshlight porn. It's just soured for me now though.

I had thought about getting one for my husband too but I am concerned about him eventually choosing it over me. One of my friends dads got left by his wife because he couldn't satisfy her like the dildo he bought her. I really don't want to get left over a toy. I would like to say however that @REALCOCK has a very nice video using one and it was enticing. If I wasn't concerned that my husband would like it better I would love to watch him use it.