Oral Exam - Blow Job Response

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Blow Job Response

  1. Silent

    5 vote(s)
    6.2%
  2. Heavy breathing

    30 vote(s)
    37.0%
  3. An occasional moan

    24 vote(s)
    29.6%
  4. Some moaning

    27 vote(s)
    33.3%
  5. Moaning towards the 'finish'

    31 vote(s)
    38.3%
  6. Very vocal (talkative, give direction)

    18 vote(s)
    22.2%
  7. Only vocal if something's wrong (Ouch!)

    7 vote(s)
    8.6%
  8. Need anal stimulation to moan

    1 vote(s)
    1.2%
  1. D_Fiona_Farvel

    D_Fiona_Farvel Account Disabled

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    While reading the ball licking thread, which I looovee to do, I started thinking about how a few guys I've blown were very quiet during BJs. I know they all (<--- something about that word :rolleyes:) had a great time, even pop a boner if I mentioned a bj I'd given a few days before... so yes, I know how to 'rock the mic right'... However, one guy never made a peep during oral - heavy breathing, legs shaking, 'I'm gonna cum' and an occasional 'mm' not even 'mmmm', and that was it. (sex was quiet too, btw) :boggled:

    Which sucks :)wink:) because moaning turns me on - being told how good my tongue or lips feel, hearing their breath quicken and moans make me wet. Can't help it.

    So when receiving a blow job what is your response? Is it usually the same no matter what's happening or based upon level of pleasure or some other factor? Is there anything a partner can do (ask, dirty talk, anal penetration, salad tossing, ball play, tonguing the frenulum, taking you deeper, wetter) to make you louder or is the response pretty much set?

    I'll try to add a poll :fingersx:
     
  2. Love-it

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    I am silent for the most part, relaxing with the feeling and concentrating on sensations that are more subtle than intercourse. If my wife asked me to be more vocal I would certainly consider doing so and if she was more "active" she might elicit more of a response, but I enjoy her blow jobs immensely.
     
  3. B_The Greek Dude

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    I'll re-iterate the fact that i've never had a blowjob that felt good, and that i've always made the person stop because I couldn't feel anything, and then i'll feel bad about myself because i'm a freak.
     
  4. cutedorkwho

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    hah dont feel so bad Greek Dude!

    The only time I've ever gotten oral I didn't particularly enjoy it either. It was very sexy and erotic for me, and I got very turned on but ultimately had to jack myself off.

    So my response during oral is somewhat mixed. I'm not about to fake it and say "ohhhmygod, yes YES!" and not even orgasm, but at some points I did moan or talk to her, especially about how sexy we looked! hah
     
  5. horneyoldguy

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    While I enjoy the sensations I tend to moan, especially when she plays with my balls and ass at the same time.
     
  6. sdbg

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    Your age isn't displayed, but I'd guess that you are reasonably young. I'd like to think that you haven't met the right guy, the chemistry hasn't been there, or the guy that blew you didn't have the techinque down. One day these elements will fall into place and you'll be amazed how nice it can be. It's not you - it's the situation. Keep an open mind and someday it will be your turn.

    I had a BF when I was 26 - 32 who loved getting blown. It was a standard part of our routine. He used to run his fingers though my hair while I was working it, which I loved. He would make comments here and there about how good it felt. His breathing would pick up. When I felt his hands tighten on my head, I knew that he was close.
     
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    I'm pretty quiet while receiving oral, or having sex in general for that matter.
    I know it tends to throw some people off a little at first sometimes. Especially if they themselves are not the quiet type in bed.
    Of course I'm fairly quiet in life outside of the bedroom as well so anyone who knows me outside of the bedroom first has never been overly surprised about it.
     
  8. tinytip

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    Moaning towards a climax is essential. It stimulates both partners.
     
  9. komodoman

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    ChockoKittie,.....One selection is missing....I vote for "All of the above"
     
  10. B_hey listen up

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    In the very beginning if you were just playing with my balls a bit and slowly running your tongue up and down my shaft I would be quietly moaning. But I would gasp the first time your mouth was around my head and than it gets more intense from there. If you are doing a nice job, using your off hand to stroke my shaft and sucking the top part well, you would feel my body shiver at times and some definate moaning and heavy breathing. I could never be silent, that would be odd.
     
  11. B_The Greek Dude

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    Yeah, you can say that.

    Yeah, there aren't any good younger guys around here; all the gay/bi guys are either old, fat and married, or young and campier than Jack McFarland from Will and Grace. Everyone seems to just say "Well then go to college!," but my family doesn't have hundreds of thousands to spare, and my career choice (porn star/gang banger) isn't even going to require college anyways.

    Ah, well. At least everyone else can enjoy sex, apparently.
     
  12. lucky8

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    depends on how it feels. this one girl i used to used to mess around with would completely deepthroat me when i came, and it was fucking amazing...id literally find myself holding on for dear life as i came, usually saying holy shit! but then again, some girls aren't very good and honestly, i feel awkward making noises on purpose. if shes good, the noise comes naturally
     
  13. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Ok i voted some moaning lastnight and then did some oral to see if it was the right choice. I'd say he was continuously moaning and enjoying himself.
     
  14. B_The Greek Dude

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    ::vows never to click on an oral sex thread again::
     
  15. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Please tell me you could feel something when they used their hands plus their mouth?
     
  16. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    See, I forget that BJs are relaxing and never considered concentration a part of it, thanks for the info! :smile:

    Someone who's really quiet during sex does throw me off in the beginning.
    You never really know if they had a good time until they come and want more, right? Because you're not going to stop sex to ask "yo, do you like this or not? *taps foot*". So I have started to notice other things like shaking, breathing changes, etc, and I talk more and ask "do you like that, baby" or similar. I learn... :wink:

    Sowwy, if I could go back and add it, I would. :)
     
  17. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    I agree, deep throating usually makes for a nice response.
    There's no need to make noise on purpose, I prefer moans and talking that is totally spontaneous... much hotter.


    Thank you, pretty boy. :wink:
    So for the best response, it is a combination of movements and a building of sensation that makes you most vocal?
     
  18. B_hey listen up

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    And the anticipation of doing more. I take some time to cum from a BJ so you would be better off with some foreplay and getting me as aroused as possible before your mouth even touched my hard cock. If you have sexy nails, thats a huge turn-on. Looking down and seeing nice nails/fingers wrapped around my balls/shaft is beyond sexxxxy. And even just grabbing my cock forefully and rubbing it against your face, chin, etc is hot. That would just make me beg for more.
     
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