My partner recently told me she doesn't like when I give her oral sex because my erection tends to go away. She feels like I don't find her attractive and that I'm just obliging her and that's why I go soft. I do find her attractive and I love giving her oral sex, but even with all my other partners, I've never maintained my erection while giving oral sex unless I play with my dick at the same time. My current partner has a bit of a hangup about me playing with myself while going down on her. So my question is, is this normal? Do other men experience the same thing? Thanks!