Oral Sex Equal Exchange?

[Lionheart17]

So I was dating this guy for about three months no longer with him. Im just curious to know what you guys think when someone sucks your cock. If you are getting it and he sucks you off for a little, not ending in ejaculation. Do you suck him off as well? return the favor? or do you just proceed and make out as if oral wasn't on the menu?

 

[Shagtastic]

Whether it's a relationship hetrosexual or homosexual in nature (guys and guys or girls and girls) I've always thought equal exchange is the way to go.

For me, I'd love to go down on a girl anyways. But especially if she gave me a BJ first? DEFINITELY going down then to return the favor ;P

I think same should go for any couple.

-- Shagtastic

 

[simbablk]

For me it doesn't matter - I like eating pussy so whether she sucks my dick or not is irrelevant. I'm STILL gonna eat her pussy until she cums.

Simba

 

[monel]

I like performing oral on my wife - or anyone else I was with before her - but she does not like giving me head. Though I concur with Simba that since I like eating pussy I will do it regardless of any reciprocation, after a while it does piss me the fuck off.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

I always get off best if the desire is mutual. There's something about cumming at the same time that is more intense that just giving or just getting separately.

 

[Vonrofles]

MMMMmmmm Salmon, the other pink meat.... Nah, I love the vertical smile... Always have, always will... I don't expect reciprication, but IMHO, if a chic, or dude for that matter I guess, goes down on you, it's because they know the amount of pleasure it will bring to you. So at that moment, they are trying to please YOU. So if there's an expectation on their end, well then they are just being greedy bitches...

 

[Silvertip]

It varies a lot with the individual, but it's all good!

 

[scottredleter]

I tall depends on the situation. A blow job in a bathroom or some alley, I don't usually like to have the favor returned. If it is a spend the night tyoe of thing with a person I have some level of relationship with, then all the activites are on the table.

 

[art]

I'm very oral and tactile, so regardless of what I get, genitals are going in my mouth. That said, I love to lie back and get a nice, slow, wet blowjob from anyone.

 

[pornographicpoet]

Well, i think a Facebook group my friend created years ago sums up my attitude best, "Fingering is not the equivalent of head, you bastards" I personally love going down on women just as much as I love getting head.

 

[helgaleena]

What matters is mutual pleasure IMO. You both need to come, however you achieve that.

Monel, you need to let your wife know you are pissed off. Don't let it sour things between you. She values your pleasure as much as you value hers and will find some way to 'even the score' between you I am sure. :wink:

Moi, I do not automatically orgasm from oral, despite being eager to give it, both to male and female. I would be pissed off in fact if a partner insisted on making me come from it when I would rather they switched things up and tried other stimuli! It's the greatest pleasure to have someone listen to what I want!

 

[thestrangeness]

this post seems to be another guy post but sharin my opinion.. for me... i LOVE givin oral... but as for getting it... idk generally i will pass... i would rather have him pound the hell outta me... and every time i say that guys always wanna say they r soooo good at it and so on.... its not that.. i mean i have other things i enjoy more... so if i suck u off.. or suck u.. its cuz i wanna not cuz im thinkin tit for tat....

 

[MickeyLee]

can't say that i do anything with the expectation of reciprocation

giving head is just about my favorite smexy-time thing to do, i can't see why i could keep a oral tally running to make sure a partner doesn't "owe me one"

hmmm i have given out gold stars for going above and beyond :biggrin1::naughty:

 

[Molins]

I don't know about most guys but fair usually isn't in it. I love 69 but I work so much better with a pair of legs over my shoulders and buried in a pussy going at it until she cums.

 

[upone]

It varies a lot with the individual, but it's all good!

That says it all. Each relationship is different; most women like cunnilingus, but some do not. I love fellatio, but some women don't like to give it. One of my longest and best relationships was with a lovely woman who didn't enjoy cunniligus, but loved having a mouthful of my cock about three times a day...

 

[rtg]

Depends on the couple/individual! Sometimes my bf and I do it to eachother before sex, sometimes he just does me, sometimes i just do him, sometimes we do eachother at the same time...but for us, it's always just foreplay before sex...so it doesn't matter about the oral so much really lol it's just good fun and teasing

 

[D_Phil_Doneafew]

I love oral, especially 69 when we both cum at the same time. But I do not think there is an across the board answer here. I would say if he started to suck my dick and then stopped and I finished him off without him doing anything else I would be pissed. Hell he started it. I have told him before DO NOT START THE CAR IF YOU ARE NOT GOING FOR A DRIVE.