I have a question for everybody; bi, gay, trannys, straight, male or female. When you are performing oral sex on another person do you consider this to be an intimate or a personal act? Would you go down on someone that you wouldn't kiss? And if so why? I guess I am somewhat old school. To me fellatio is both a personal and intimate act. It's special and I won't do it to just any Tom, Dick, or Harry. If I'm sucking your cock, you can bet your last dollar you have already been thoroughly kissed by me. :wink: I think I would be a little freaked out if a guy wanted to eat my pussy, but not kiss me. It's like he's skipping an important step in the process or worse treating me like a hooker. I wouldn't tolerate that at all.