Oral Sex: taking in the whole length

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  1. Imported

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    petite_asianbabe: I was wondering if its possible to fully deep throat a 10 inch penis. My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet and I have been trying to please him orally (to reward him for his patience in my request to take it slow!) :9 My mouth is quite small (I'm 5'4", 110 lbs) I have to really open wide just to fit his penis in my mouth. In the beginning I could only fit a few inches but lately I have been able to let it enter my throat for a short time. I find that holding my breath while its in my throat helps (those years of swimming came in handy!). But my jaws and throat hurt alot and so far I can only handle half his length . He really loves what I do for him orally, but do guys really like their ENTIRE penis in a girl's throat? What can I do to make it fit? A different position? I've had some success while he's standing and I'm on my knees, and also while lying on my back with my head hanging over the edge of the bed. Help!! :eek:
     
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    It seems you're assuming all the appropriate positions to orally take the 10 inch one, petite_asianbabe. While lying across the bed with your head hanging off gives him the opportunity to take your mouth from above your head. In this position his ball sack can rest (or should I say flop) across your nose and eyes because he will probably hunch his ass trying to get more of his inches in your mouth and throat. It seems to me this position would be good if the shaft of his cock is straight, since he can choose just how far he wants to stand over your mouth for insertion.

    The other position you mention, kneeling as he stands, gives him the opportunity to hold your head between his hands as you take his extra long dick. This position probably allows more forceful deep throating and your gag reflex will have to withstand even more forced resistance. This on-your-knees position is excellent if he has a downward curve for feeding your mouth and throat. It will be more likely to 'find' its path for fucking.

    To be seeking advise, you must really enjoy giving head and he's a lucky dude to have you. It seems many petite asian girls are adapt at servicing orally, even so far as, like you, seek out the big ones.

    All of this is suggested as though your post is authentic and not a bunch of crap posted to give a bit of excitement. Have fun nursing!
     
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    Well, being large myself I can say that it is much more enjoyable to me to have really good head without deep-throat than to be ramming my dick into someone's throat--especially someone built small like you.

    What I mean is that proper oral technique, including taking the head and a little more into your mouth and using your lips and toungue on that part while lubing up with spit and massaging the shaft with your hand feels much better to me than deep throat. Has your bf actually requested deep throating?

    On another note, try it when he's still a little soft and see how that works. It may not work for long, because he will get hard, but I've found that my dick slides all the way in when it's a little soft. That may help you get a feel for things. Also, in my experience breathing through it works better than holding my breath. Let me think ... I'm pretty sure I exhale through my nose while it slides in. For some reason that delays the gag reflex.
     
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    petite_asianbabe:

    Thanks for the advice RoysToy. I wasn't into oral sex until I met my boyfriend. He is so sweet and since we decided to wait on sex I wanted him to still be pleasured. I tolerated it at first but I think now I enjoy giving head more than he does receiving! :p Must be a control thing with females becuz I drive him absolutely crazy and it gets me extremely wet.
     
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    petite_asianbabe:
    Well, being large myself I can say that it is much more enjoyable to me to have really good head without deep-throat than to be ramming my dick into someone's throat--especially someone built small like you.

    What I mean is that proper oral technique, including taking the head and a little more into your mouth and using your lips and toungue on that part while lubing up with spit and massaging the shaft with your hand feels much better to me than deep throat. Has your bf actually requested deep throating?

    On another note, try it when he's still a little soft and see how that works. It may not work for long, because he will get hard, but I've found that my dick slides all the way in when it's a little soft. That may help you get a feel for things. Also, in my experience breathing through it works better than holding my breath. Let me think ... I'm pretty sure I exhale through my nose while it slides in. For some reason that delays the gag reflex.
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    thanks VinceNYC, is nice to get a guys perspective. My bf never requested deep throating, its just something I was curious about and maybe something to spice up the bedroom action. Porn films always has a guy ramming his dick down a girls throat.
     
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    Those porn films though usually the girl isnt enjoying it lol and its just for show.

    I'd like oral of any sort, I'm making a movie soon called 'Never Been Sucked' lol, the cast includes Drew Barrymore :p

    I don't think you have to get it all in though, when really the sensation is only on the head, or at least mainly. If you can fit your tongue nicely around the head and lick the best parts ;) maybe with a twisting motion on your hands (or just suckin it and strokin the shaft) that should be enough.

    Best position might be to lie down on the bed like you were doin. Also did you only recently try deepthroating? It sounds like you did, if you did then keep practicing, and your jaw/throat will be able to handle more and more. Good luck.
     
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    petite_asianbabe:

    thanks Knight, I'm glad to hear its not necessary to fit the whole thing in. Yes, I just recently started deepthroating and only for a few seconds at a time. Not too enjoyable if its longer than that so I'll probably just stick to the top half. Sorry bf! ;)
     
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    petite asian babe,
    I can take in only about 1/3-1/2 of SO's penis. His head is very large. I show enthusiasm every time & I'm sure that makes up for my severe lack of technique.
     
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    oh, and he's 9.5 long & 6.5 girth. So, almost same length as your BF. I am caucasian petite with a small mouth (dentists always comment on that) a little under 5'4" & while I weighed 108 in my teens, I am now in my 40's & around 125-128 (depends on the time of the month).
     
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    I often wondered if girls actually "enjoy" giving head? I wonder what goes through there mind exactly.......from a womans perspective.......
     
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    alleyblue,
    well, I've only given head to two men, my ex-husband & now, my SO of 10 months.
    Those are, also, the only two erect penis that I've seen (on males of over puberty anyway). What goes through my head is what can I do to him to hear him moan!
     
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    petite_asianbabe: I agree with summertime, my turn-on is knowing that I am in total control of his pleasure. It may hurt and require a little effort but its well worth it in the end when he starts to shake uncontrollably and moan in pleasure! Of course I have to be madly in love with the guy too, I won't do it to just anybody! :9
     
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    Interesting!
    Thanks petite_asianbabe and Summertime for giving me a womens perspective. :)
     
  14. jonb

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    Deepthroating is very difficult, and if you gag, it's a major turnoff. One trick to blowjobs is to do it from the side, like you would play a flute. Another thing you can do is stroke whatever you can't take.
     
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    Yeah, I remember you posted that a while back and I got some mileage out of it, (the advice to go at it from the side) thanks! :D



    Oh yeah, I'm thinking about getting as much down my throat as possible and if I can't take it all, I'm thinking about how good it's going to feel inside me.
     
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    The nice thing about fellatio (or cunnilingus or handjobs, for that matter) is that there are so many different techniques. But, needless to say, few people know about the opposite sex, and even if you're gay, what they like depends on the person.
     
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    But the practise is so much fun!
     
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    and you gotta practice to keep your technique perfect!!
     
  19. Imported

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    petite_asianbabe: Oh yes, I agree with madame_zora, the practice is definitely fun!

    A little off the subject, I'm just curious - do guys really like to see red lipstick and red fingernails during a blowjob too?!
     
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    Lipstick and nails don't do much for me. But lots of eye contact is a huge turn-on.
     
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