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Verbal cues are key! And you're so right ababout body language. Thanks for the tips!My clit doesn't have teeth to bite back, so being gentle is much preferred to start.
Being able to read and respond to body language is an art few possess. I'm not Opposed to giving verbal cues.
I've dated 1 or 2 women who weren't into that much and it made me so sad lol.I don't like cunnilingus that much
HahahaSince I’m not a big fan of oral, I’ll just say there are more than one like me out there, and light or rough licking is just going to leave us cold. Stick to fingers, baby! And please don’t think you can ‘convert’ someone like me into liking it. I’ll tolerate it, but I hope the TV is on so I have something to do while you’re down there.![]()
I'm ambidextrous lol.For me getting head is a lot more than playing with my clit in any fashion. I want someone to make out with my pussy. It all feels good. Inner and outer labia, lick and suck and nibble and pull. I love having my clit sucked more than flicked with the tip of the tongue. When it comes to tongue stimulation I like slow, broad tongue strokes with an increasing tempo as I get closer to orgasm.
Also.. one can always up their fingering game. Cuz if you fuck up one while concentrating too much on the other the whole orgasm can be thrown off.
That's awesome!My lover has a master's degree in oral technique, and I have him on full retainer as an exclusive provider. I've had undergrads before that were OK, and I gave them points for their attempts. I can't say that I've had any that were just plain awful unless we were both drunk.
Nothing too hard. I don't like hard.
YAAAAASSSSSS!!!! Despite requesting this pretty much verbatim, I usually get little flicks because that's what is shown in porn. *head desk*When it comes to tongue stimulation I like slow, broad tongue strokes with an increasing tempo as I get closer to orgasm.
For me getting head is a lot more than playing with my clit in any fashion. I want someone to make out with my pussy. It all feels good. Inner and outer labia, lick and suck and nibble and pull. I love having my clit sucked more than flicked with the tip of the tongue. When it comes to tongue stimulation I like slow, broad tongue strokes with an increasing tempo as I get closer to orgasm.
Also.. one can always up their fingering game. Cuz if you fuck up one while concentrating too much on the other the whole orgasm can be thrown off.
It's my favorite.I completely agree with MickeyLee, plus you got to love doing it. If you don't it shows in how you "perform" for lack of a better word.
Thank you! I'll take that advice and run with it!Just like regular sex. Some like it soft, some hard and some go beyond.
Start with soft, go up gradually and easy. See what she likes. If you can't, ask her afterwards. Assuming you have built enough rapport to be able to ask at that stage.
And take LaFemme's advice. Stick to fingers. Whether she likes oral rough or gentle or not at all. You'll be able to get her number. Always. Errr... most of the time.