I would say that that may be true with the very first encounter. But loving partners do learn how to prolong their sessions as time goes by. The fear of premature ejaculation may, however, be to one's partner a sign of one's excitement at first meet, but, for most men this can be overcome in the happy repeats when sessions are the opportunity for savoring the communion of two persons who have become truly loving partners.
Maybe the lesson to be learned is to avoid casual sex. Right?