Ladies, with a new partner do you usually orgasm the first time? The first time being when there is genital contact (oral sex, intercourse or genital touching). I'm wondering what percent of guys get you off the first time. Do you usually have to be with someone a few times to get comfortable enough to orgasm? If he can't get you off the first time do you give up on him? Or is the first time more about making sure he has an orgasm?