for guys who have been able to bring women to orgasm through cunninglingus. What signs whether though appearance or texture have you noticed regarding the vagina itself right before and during orgasm?
The most obvious sign will be that the clitoris, which will start out engorged, will abruptly become very soft just as she near orgasm.
It is at this very moment that most men lose track of the little thing and she will slip off the edge.... IT is critical to try and keep track of where you are and keep stimulation building thru this phase and not start hunting around all over to find it... you won't really be able to find it by feel so much...
If you happen to have a finger inside of her...As she comes very close to climax, or on some women as they climax, you will feel their vagina expand as the muscle wall "tents" - particularly the anterior wall of the Vagina will suck in toward the pubic bone... if you are stimulating her G spot, you will have to crook your finger to maintain contact with the G spot as it moves toward your nose.
When she is coming, most women will exhibit a distinctive tremor... sometimes it is a rhythmic shudder, or even a short bucking action... for a really great orgasm, it is important that you clamp down and keep the stimulation going during this shuddering...
As the shuddering subsides, most women will prefer you to let up considerably or entirely on stimulation and allow a short 'refractory' period.
If your girl prefers this, then you will want to lick gently AROUND the clit and just keep things very mild for anywhere from 20 seconds to a couple of minutes... then gradually start to zero in on the clit again for round 2.
Some women
can tolerate the intensity of continued stimulation immediately after orgasm... those are the women you can just keep right on going with, pushing them directly into a second , third fourth etc orgasm... with each coming faster until they end up in one long rolling orgasmic haze...
After the orgasm, you will notice a mottled red flushing on her chest, and/or throat. This is proof of purchase... the genuine article.
At least... this is how most women display... but be prepared for variations on this as people come in a wide variety...