Orgasm Stroke Speed

[Jax20]

Just curious what the ratio is here… I’ve always sped up and stroke fast as I cum but I’ve seen quite a lot of people slow down or even stop. I feel like no stimulation would kill my orgasm. What do you do?

 

[1069369]

If you’re referring to orgasm with a partner, then I normally speed up when I know I can no longer hold off.

When I jerk off I usually stop and just hold my cock, no stroking.

 

[Jax20]

If you’re referring to orgasm with a partner, then I normally speed up when I know I can no longer hold off.

When I jerk off I usually stop and just hold my cock, no stroking.

Stopping doesn’t make your orgasm weaker?

 

[deleted12946731]

If she's giving me a blowie I sit back and enjoy it, I can go fast or slow to blast a load off. It's all about enjoying the moment. As for fucking, speed right up and then thrust deep as I unload.
Rubbing one out is the same, I speed right up then arch up and blow as if I'm thrusting deep into that shit.

 

[Jax20]

If she's giving me a blowie I sit back and enjoy it, I can go fast or slow to blast a load off. It's all about enjoying the moment. As for fucking, speed right up and then thrust deep as I unload.
Rubbing one out is the same, I speed right up then arch up and blow as if I'm thrusting deep into that shit.

so you’re team speed up and don’t stop?

 

[1069369]

Stopping doesn’t make your orgasm weaker?

Nah brah. Same or stronger.

 

[deleted13728981]

Interesting question. I slow down at orgasm or just after ejaculation begins. I can't keep going fast, it's too intense.

 

[longstroke7]

My stroke speed increases when I start to ejaculate. It's kind of involuntary as the sensation of my cock stiffening up before I start to erupt makes me just thrust really hard and deep

 

[Jax20]

I gave slowdown a shot yesterday. Def a good orgasm but think I prefer speed up - more intense and longer orgasm. Of course, this is me jerking - will have to report back with sex.

 

[Hungstraight]

Great question.

When I wank, I’d say I usually slow down quite a bit. Sometimes down to one or two strokes per spurt. Sometimes I keep the same quick rhythm and stroke really hard straight through until I’m done shooting. Both feel good

When I’m getting a blowjob I just let her do her thing, unless I’m pushing her head down and controlling the pace, in which case I generally speed up as I cum.

While fucking (and controlling the pace), I generally slow down and thrust really hard in time with my spurts if I’m cumming inside her.

If I’m getting a handjob, it’s all down to her. I’ve had chicks who speed up as I cum, some who keep the same pace and some who slow right down. And the there are the really evil ones who make you think you’re going to have a great orgasm but just let go as you reach the point of return and ruin your orgasm

 

[thongboy]

I like extended fucks, whether with a buddy or my gf. That means taking it slow and enjoying it. With me it also means going balls deep whether it's an ass or a pussy. I always consider it a real turn on if my gf cums at least once before we finish it off. I like the fact that I have staying power, and I want the same from a top when he fucks me. With me, when I fuck someone, it's almost instinctive. I know when to slow down if there's a danger of cumming to soon, but like most dudes I always speed up when I'm ready to shoot

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

I almost always speed up when I know I'm getting close, but once I reach the ejaculatory inevitability stage, I also almost always completely stop as I like to concentrate on that rushing fluid feeling and watching it come out (or if it's VIP with the wife, stopping helps her with the feeling of being filled up).

 

[Upfourall]

With a partner I get in as deep as I can and just pump it in. If I'm jacking I tend to speed up.

 

[Tazman66]

When fucking I'll speed up and thrust as deep as I can just before exploding, then just one last thrust and hold it as deep as I can while I pump her full of cum. Wife loves to feel my cum filling her up.
When I jerk off I usually edge for a while then when I'm ready I'll speed up and then stop stroking when I start to cum. I like to feel my orgasm spread through my cock and balls and watch my cum pump out.

 

[Tight_End_SC]

I don't stroke it too hard. The pleasure is more intense for me if I rub my nuts while stroking the head and upper shaft firmly but not too fast. Really, it's what is going on in my mind I think that sends me over into orgasm. Watching some really good porn always helps too, but there are a few encounters I can re-play in my mind that will push me over the edge also.

If I am getting a handy, I like her/him to not go too fast!

 

[lapdog2001]

Once I reach that point of no return, I'm going to cum no matter what. I find that timing my strokes to the waves of orgasm enhances my orgasm. This applies to using my hands, or more common, thrusting deep inside my wife's pussy. Like many above, I've also slowed down and thrust balls deep inside her as I cum.

I don't think I've ever intentionally just stopped stroking as I reach orgasm. I have in hopes of delaying an orgasm, but I start stroking again, if I've gone beyond the threshold.