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There are other forums that you can find on Google which are meant for sex abuse victims to discuss their experiences. Being able to express yourself on the topic, even if anonymously, can be a cathartic experience that could benefit you.

I haven't looked into it very deeply but malesurvivor.org looks like it might be a good place to start.

Please consider that site, or any other like it, as a step towards therapy.
 
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On the abuse in the past, sounds like you need to talk it through with someone, family, friends, anonymously on the internet, a professional therapist ideally who can offer you a way through this.
Does this person who abused you ever been reported for what they did to you? If not, you should consider that.
Perhaps others with autism could advise but I'd think the abuse would have more to do with your fear of ejaculation as it is to do with what happened to you and you see ejaculation as very bad, we can tell you that it's not but you have to find a way to get over not been able to reach that final hurdle. See a doctor, see a therapist, but please talk it through with someone. You've made a first step discussing things here, now find ways to move further forward. Good luck.
 

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1in6.org Additional Resources - a great site for information and support of male survivors od sexual abuse.

Fredonia Male Survivors

RAINN Hotline - can connect you with support and resources

Autism Speaks has a good bit of information specific to survivors on the spectrum.

I don't have any sparkling wisdom to impart. I do hope you find peace and can reclaim your full sexual expression.

*hugs and healing*
 

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Sorry you went through that. You might try finding a sex therapist and maybe even a sex surrogate if you are open to it. You can also self pleasure at your own pace or play with a partner you trust. Wishing you the best.
 
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Firstly: I’m sorry that you’ve been through that... not to minimize your pain but I also got abused as a kid and I didn’t get the help until much later in life...
Secondly: there is help. You should find a good therapist and they will be able to unlock things in your mind.
lastly: being autist might have NOTHING to do with it... I’m bipolar and I have disassociation issues and although my trauma led me to a hyper-sexual state (opposite from yours) it was later on that my disorder had very little to do with it.

Ive been in therapy for years now - and it changed my life for much better.
 
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