Orgasms, make you sleepy or awake?

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  1. 4herplsr

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    My wife and I probably have pretty typical love making. Generally to give it crude and succinctly, we have incredible loving sex and she comes 1 to 3 times before I do, but after I do I feel sleepy. She feels awake and ready to run a marathon. What about you all?
     
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    It depends. If it has been a pretty long session, drink or weed has been involved, or I have had a busy day and I'm tired, then I might feel sleepy or drop off for a short time. But, usually I am so hyped up, that I like to re-start the caressing, nibbling, kissing, and giving a massage type things, and that usually gets it all going again. But eventually all good things have to come to and end, and rest is required I can only last so long before it sleepiness finally overtakes me.
     
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    well it depends what caused the orgasm: J/O nothing, but sex gets me really sleepy and hungry
     
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    I have both responses. I prefer to fall asleep, but sometimes I get super energized. The reason for the two different responses is a mystery.
     
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    It can go either way for me. In the morning, it boosts my day. After a long, hard day at work nothing better to make sure I get a solid night of sleep.
     
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    Sleepy...
     
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    It wipes me out.
     
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    My 'final' orgasm makes me feel very sleepy, but that comes after several during the night.
     
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    Hungry and sleepy. If you're going to be my sex slave you better keep a well stocked fridge. :smile: :wink:
     
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    An orgasm just makes me crave another one, so I'd say energised :)

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    It really depends on the time. Sex, and therefore orgasms, in the evening or morning make me feel really energized. Probably they don't fuel me enough to run a marathon, but a half-marathon maybe. I achieve best results on issues I deal with professionally shortly after sex, it's like my brain runs a higher RPM then.

    Completely different are orgasms during daytime. They don't make me sleepy, but I feel like I've had a too wet dinner (too much alcohol): I can't concentrate on anything, I start doing a lot of things that I loose the interest in two minutes after I have started, reading bores me and so does TV. I try to make something for lunch, but stop as soon as I have the pan out of the drawer. This lasts for about 5 hours, then I feel normal again.
     
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    My wife gets sleepy and I am wide awake.
     
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    It depends. If it is a spontaneous, f*** me now afternoon romp, it will energize me. If its at the end of an evening of wild sex, being edged and multiple orgasms, that final big one has been known to knock me out.
     
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    I get so intense (and vocal) during sex, that when all the moaning is done, I'm am thoroughly spent and ready to curl up for a good sleep.
     
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    Whatever time of the day, wherever I am (!) an orgasm will make me a tired boy. Often I might yawn as I come-....not the most romantic time. My partner wants to chat and cuddle, and I am already drifting off to sleep. Morning, afternoon, can't be helped.

    It must be the release of all that tension!!
     
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    I'm a sleeper, my past beneficial friend was the total opposite. He wanted to go and walk, and do things. I just crashed.
     
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    Sometimes, I am ready for round 2, sometimes, I just want to sleep.
     
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    being from coffeeville you should be always awake ;)

    In my case it depends on how tired I was before sex.

    If it's a friday night after a terrible week at work, I would fall asleep right after.

    If it's a breakfast sex it will go until lunch time (and that means 2 pm at least where I live ;) )
     
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