Orgy tips

[mcnormal]

I'm invited to a party/mini-orgy this week - 3 girls, a male friend and myself.
Its the first time I have been involved in anything like this, anyone out there willing to share their experiences?
Cheers

 

[rubberwilli]

Have fun and go with the flow!

Do you know all of the people who will be there? Initmately? With the odd number of women to men it could get a little tricky but you'll just have to feel out the dynamic. Sometimes people just hit it off and things seperate but other times you just work your way around.

Open your mind to the experience, have a good time, and enjoy the feelings and pleasure of it. :wink:

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Don't stress. Be uninhibited and allow your own easy-going sexual vibe to pervade the space. Don't get caught up in the performance aspect of it. Relax and focus on pleasing the other participants.

Go slow -- it's a marathon, not a sprint.

Be aware though if someone says no, they mean it. And sometimes that is expressed without words. Be sensitive to it.

Just fuckin' have FUN.

 

[Greekdick69]

Yeah, just go with the flow, voice your feelings, sensations, thoughts....well as long as they don't disrupt the good mood.

Make sure cell phones are off and no one knocking on door or coming to the "place" unexpectedly...

Always hear opinions of the chics (if they are talking) if they are not, guide them slowly.

Should be a lot of fun, play safe, enjoy it.

 

[RoyalT]

Can I come?

Just do whatever...what I would do is you and your friend both take a girl each.

The other can sit on one guy's face or play with the girl who's getting fucked...Or you could fuck one doggy and the other bent over next to her, you could be fingering her and shit.

So much to do...have fun!:tongue:

 

[joe_smith]

One word, Viagra. The sex party's best recreational drug.

Every one else gave very good advice. I have used Viagra with every threesome I have had and man does it help. Not only to I last longer but it allows me to not worry because being able to get errect after ejaculation becomes much easier and in turn helps make sure every girl gets enough cock.

 

[catman]

be sure to take a long hot shower before hand...so no 'odors'. Take extra lubricant and condoms (just in case). Take an extra towel (great for 'wiping down' (or off).

relax. breath. (heavy) and enjoy.

 

[mcnormal]

Good tips, thanks everybody.
I'm trying keep a relaxed attitude to it all and just take it as it comes. The other guy is a good friend but we have never been in this sort situation together before.
Viagra would be handy, not sure how easy it is to get around here though.
Cheers

 

[OmahaBeef]

Whatever you do...take pictures and share them

...OB

 

[hypolimnas]

Good tips, thanks everybody.

I'm trying keep a relaxed attitude to it all and just take it as it comes. The other guy is a good friend but we have never been in this sort situation together before.

Two things come to mind. The first is that you will work out a comfort level regarding involvement with the other guy. Exploring and respecting his limits will happen pretty naturally.

In these situations I think it is also important try and get everyone feeling involved, and comfortably engaged. Sometimes you can have moments when you would rather take one of the participants off, and do your thing together. I try to make a real effort to make sure no one is feeling left out or less engaged. In a group it only takes a two or three people to take this inclusive approach, and the whole thing will work like magic.

If you find yourself drawn to one person then explore that together when you are alone with each other on another, or later, occasion. The point of the event is that you will all feel great sharing with each other.

Good luck! Don't forget to report back. :wink:

 

[deleted13797]

Cum early, cum often.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

I say keep some fingernail polish remover in your car. Superglue your hips together in case the other guy gets a wild idea.

 

[mcnormal]

Wooohooo!
What a great night we had. Already planning the next meeting.
I was slightly nervous before I got there, but that disappeared quickly as everyone was friendly enough.
No photos though, maybe next time.
I think I'm addicted!!
McNormal

 

[Punisher]

Damn... makes me want to get into another 3some, and definitely a moresome.
Argh.