B_NineInchCock_160IQ
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taking this a little personal, aren't we Zora? If you have the guts to tell guys directly and bluntly to leave you alone I don't think that disproves what I said at all. We all know that you're 1 in a million, to say nothing of being 1 in 100. I know nothing about this one guy in particular nor much at all about things he has done, nor did I say that what I was saying had direct application to him or to the person making the post... and certainly not to you. The core of what I stated still stands inassailably: in general these terms including "stalker" get thrown around WAAAY too much. If you know someone and they are friendly toward you and give you no indication that they don't want to be bothered by you, there's nothing wrong with sending them an e-mail. I find it really bizarre how so many people think of their own readily available frequently published contact information as somehow sacred or protected. In this instance, the girl has her website published by her own action in her own profile here and gets irked when someone clicks on the link. That makes sense??? Now, this one guy in particular, maybe he was sending out harrassing or obscene e-mails, maybe he did so after being asked to stop, I have no idea, I wasn't speaking to him directly through most of my post. I was speaking in general terms.
Maybe you've been harrassed by men online, I certainly believe that, there are plenty of creeps out there and you are quite visible and well known on these forums. and maybe you've never used the term irresponsibly, I don't know. I never said that you did. But I know many many many women who have. Actions that some guy would take to get to know some girl will be perceived as romantic if that girl happens to think said guy is cute, those very same actions will be seen as creepy if she doesn't. By labeling every single guy who you don't like who happens to take an interest in you as "stalker" (and I'm using the universal you here Zora, not talking about you specifically)... then the word loses all meaning. There are real stalkers out there who are actually dangerous and I think it's dumb to be calling someone who is merely pesky, overzealous, or perhaps even obnoxious a "stalker".
Maybe you've been harrassed by men online, I certainly believe that, there are plenty of creeps out there and you are quite visible and well known on these forums. and maybe you've never used the term irresponsibly, I don't know. I never said that you did. But I know many many many women who have. Actions that some guy would take to get to know some girl will be perceived as romantic if that girl happens to think said guy is cute, those very same actions will be seen as creepy if she doesn't. By labeling every single guy who you don't like who happens to take an interest in you as "stalker" (and I'm using the universal you here Zora, not talking about you specifically)... then the word loses all meaning. There are real stalkers out there who are actually dangerous and I think it's dumb to be calling someone who is merely pesky, overzealous, or perhaps even obnoxious a "stalker".