erostonic: Hey, you guys - Does it really matter to you that a couple of inches are "out in the cold" (like Max )? You know, you can't fully penetrate or get it all in? My guy is a couple of inches "cold" but he said he doesn't care. But I know I get frustrated when a dude can't hit bottom, which has happened a couple of times. I like the feeling of being bottomed out. At the very least, he has to have some girth about him (and I mean FAT) but if he doesn't have that, why bother? I was wondering is it the same difference for men, when they can't get it all in.