Evening LPSG, Tonight I would like to wrack a few brains and bring up a subject that most people would likely be interested to see discussed. So there you are sitting at work/school, wondering why the hell it is that you are still single and/or you don't have a black book of potential interests, whether purely social or sexual in nature. I realize this doesn't apply to all people, but it is very likely that even the most charismatically gifted and "life of the party" individuals have even been here once. By the way, you people are bastards having been born with it. I'm not mad. Since this site is primarily the exhibitionists outlet, I can venture to say that most of us have thought at one time "I have a nice sized package, shouldn't that be enough to grant me all of my desired partners?" I also happen to believe that this does indeed attribute to part of our confidence, and that sites like these DO indeed raise self-esteem (in my short time here I have noticed the overwhelming majority of posters are positive; however I can also see how it causes expectations to increase as well) and are quite therapeutic for some. So the question remains: "What gives?!" Why the hell can't I just walk up to that absolutely gorgeous guy/gal that works at Quizno's and ask him/her out and have them respond favorably? I'm a rational guy, I realize that I will likely will not die if and when I just approach them. The fear of rejection is very prevalent in me and I suspect many others. So, if you gurus have any tips, you curious ones have any questions or you optimists/cynics have other elaborations, please feel free to contribute. We're gonna figure this out and hopefully get some confidence rolling for the "not-so-blessed" in this department.