Doing nothing is the worst of our sins, denying and debating the simple truth only allows the negativity to grow from anticipation; YES this is about racism...... and anything to do with race makes considerations for individual anything counter productive and actually destructive.
VB, you're 10 years my senior, you're a gay black man who's interests take him across the race and age divide, I'm a united states solider, white, straight and till lately with a white woman my own age, but where as I experience no judgment other than that which I forced on my self through my appearance and job in my day to day. What we both share is we both are too young to have seen the real FIGHT for the rights and farness that is taken for granted today. we can know every fact and every detail from books and stories, but I can tell you with certainty if your eyes were glued to CNN and FOX news 24/7 since 2003 you still don't know what it's like to hear the white noise of the road and not see, only remember, the sight of a humv in front of you be blown 10 feet in the air.
Having said that, it's obvious, you know it happens.... you are aware of the numbers, and details and stories surround them, there is a war over seas, there are people dying, it was started over a lie, and forced to follow through to clean up the liars mess. white people tell NIGGER jokes... we move away if possible when a black family moves in.... we thought O.J did it even before we heard the evidence.... we judge you at first sight based on the actions of idiots in your race that are publicized by the media..... I will admit this, not all of us, but most of us..... And I will call bullshit on anyone who adamantly denies it with out any exception. I admit it; because its the only way the issue can be fixed. But to fix it, a black man or woman would have to stand up and say ....I expect you to judge me... I know its popular and accepted and often expected to break laws and act with no regard for anyone most of all myself..... Its considered to be "white" to be educated, speak proper English or dress in a professional manor.....
These simple admissions of our own obvious majority truths would be a mile stone in destroying the race divide... then each group would be forced to address their own issues privately, accept their short comings and fix them accordingly. man is animal after all, and animals prefer their own kind to those that are different....we NEED our cultural differences, they make us who we are, admit our issues, make ourselves a better and then try to better us together we can all embrace EQUAL-DIFFRENT-ACCOUNTABLE....... but this will never happen...... it's easier to say you didn't think something and did, easier to blame your life on someone else, easier to expect something when you give nothing or say you are comfortable and some times oblivious to an issue you tip toe around like a land mine and allow to dictate every interaction you have with a group...... we live in a time of self imposed cultural segregation sustained by lack of communication. Its absolutely maddening