Pain and sex

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  1. LoneStranger

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    I've been having sex w/ a new woman and it has been the best I've ever had by far. We usually start of slow and easy and I gradually go deeper. With most girls, there comes a point where it's too painful for me to go as deep as I can or want (I'm not huge, but I get very hard). With this person it's different. Sometimes we'll have very passionate sex and she will want me deeper and harder. Sometimes I think to myself that this must hurt her, but after certain point, she goes quiet and takes it like no one I've been w/ before. It's very submissive and it turns me on so much. It's as if she's giving up on feeling pain.

    I've heard that women endure pain much better than men. I have no doubt it's true.

    Has anyone else experienced this?
     
  2. Ed69

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    It's more likely she just is not feeling any pain.After 18 years my wife will still let me know if I've hit something tender.

    She delivered two children without screeming.
     
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    I once got poison ivy. When I would take hot showers, gingerly washing the rash the blisters would draw up the hot water and expand a little bit, I would get a little rush of pleasure with the pain.

    Kind of enlightening at the time.

    I had heard people would get tattoos and not particularly like tattoos, that they did it primarily for the pleasure they got from the process. I get that now too.
     
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    Given certain conditions women can actually orgasm giving birth. Don't believe me, look it up.
     
  5. voidout

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    why are you assuming that the woman you're sleeping with would not be able to handle you in the first place? i mean...that seems kind of pompous, and a bit arrogant.

    every woman is different...
     
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    He assumes his size is just too big for the average woman to handle, probably for good reason, too. I bet his experiences speak volumes for this.
     
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    I agree. It seems generally true that women are much stronger than men in enduring pain. We, guys, are actually wimps when it comes to pain in sex.
     
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    um... i doubt she is in pain then. Most girls at one point or another want hard and fast ... it sounds like just likes it REALLY hard and fast. I was with a girl like that once... and she would also get quiet ... cause for her when she was riding the wave of the orgasm she said she couldn't think, move, or say anything cause her brain would be too messed up.

    And yes in general women have a higher threshold of pain. And yes some women do enjoy a little bit of pain (or alot) with their sex.

    In the end... you should ask her about it...
     
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    No question that I can endure pain much better than my husband. But pain and sex just don't mix for me.

    He is a very gentle lover and I'm very thankful for that. But a while back he experimented with viagra and no matter how much he tried to be gentle he just couldn't. The lesson we learned is that if it aint broke don't fix it.
     
  10. dolfette

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    pain is groovy.
     
  11. voidout

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    well...when it comes down to whether i like pain and sex...there isn't a difference to me.
     
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