Hello, My parter of which I've been with a long time (years) is experiencing pain during intercourse. When we first met a few years back all was good. No pain, willing to try anything, etc. The last few years though we very seldom make love and when we do I can tell she is not enjoying it. This is very frusterating to me as I don't know if it's me or her. She says it hurts, but has been to the Dr before and they find nothing wrong...therefore she says there is no sense in her going back....which leaves me wonder what am I supposed to do? She obviously tells me it hurts and does not enjoy it, but does not want to go get checked out? She's rather small, but it used to fit fine, and now it's painful... She used to enjoy sex, now I have to ask for it repeatidly and it is rather annooying to have to beg for any type of sexual contact. She does not enjoy doing anything to me, bj, hj, etc. Any advice?