OK, I figured that I'd turn to this board because I'm plum out of ideas. My main issue is relations with my wife. :biggrin1: The main problem is that these days, after about 20-30 minutes of intercourse, it becomes too painful for her to continue, and she asks me to finish. She literally can't take any more because it hurts. Here is the problem though: this pain seems to be an independent phenomenon. Lube, foreplay, position, pace, time of day...none of that seems to make a difference. Once she hits a certain point, it's just too painful for her to continue. At this point, I'm plum out of ideas. It's also annoying because I have to mentally "rush" myself to finish whenever she does this, so I end up feeling like I used my wife to masturbate instead of just finishing normally. Does anyone have any ideas?