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I'm feeling down today. Disappointed. I am 45 and have not been in a relationship apart from being briefly conned by a malignant narcissist.
The guys that I am attracted to are straight or emotionally unavailable. Please don't tell me to just go for a gay available guy. Easier said than done.
Yesterday I bumped into a guy that I used work with. He was very hot and I could never understand why he was single. He lives in my home town. It took me a while to place who he was but then I remembered. His hair has turned grey but he still looks hot. He had no wedding band on. I concluded that possibly he was a closeted gay and last night had lots of fantasies about us bumping into each other and hitting it off.
Today I looked on Facebook and it seems he had a girlfriend 2 years ago but on his profile picture he is on his own. No children, no family. I feel disappointed because it's yet another guy I see whereupon I start to imagine finally having a relationship only to discover that the guy is straight. I would love to have a straight friend where I could just share how I did feel before finding out it's an impossible possibility.
Would you be offended if a gay guy (who knows it's a purely platonic relationship) expressed his disappointment and was honest about it. Or would it creep you out and cause you to make a hasty exit from this person?
The guys that I am attracted to are straight or emotionally unavailable. Please don't tell me to just go for a gay available guy. Easier said than done.
Yesterday I bumped into a guy that I used work with. He was very hot and I could never understand why he was single. He lives in my home town. It took me a while to place who he was but then I remembered. His hair has turned grey but he still looks hot. He had no wedding band on. I concluded that possibly he was a closeted gay and last night had lots of fantasies about us bumping into each other and hitting it off.
Today I looked on Facebook and it seems he had a girlfriend 2 years ago but on his profile picture he is on his own. No children, no family. I feel disappointed because it's yet another guy I see whereupon I start to imagine finally having a relationship only to discover that the guy is straight. I would love to have a straight friend where I could just share how I did feel before finding out it's an impossible possibility.
Would you be offended if a gay guy (who knows it's a purely platonic relationship) expressed his disappointment and was honest about it. Or would it creep you out and cause you to make a hasty exit from this person?