Thank you very much for everyone comments and advice. My wife is 40. I am 35. We are approaching our third anniversary in March. We have been having this difficulty since the beginning. However, it seems to happen more often now. There are two possible reasons for this. One she is simply becoming older and naturally losing some of her libido. Second, after three years we have learned how to push each others sexual buttons pretty well. We achieve orgasms for her pretty regularly now. It is usually after her orgasm that she begins to get a little dry. I'd say it happens about 40% of the time.
Because of my girth we do that things slowly. On occasion, particularly after a week or so without sex, it is difficult penetrating her. Ramming it home isn't really our style. We like it nice and slow.
The head of my cock does grow before orgasm and we both feel the tightness and friction before I orgasm. After some thought last night and discussing this with my wife we are going to look into using some lube. I think we feel it is a combination of a number of things, her libido, my size, and sex post her orgasm that is contributing to her soreness.
Thanks again for everyone's helpful comments and advice.
Because of my girth we do that things slowly. On occasion, particularly after a week or so without sex, it is difficult penetrating her. Ramming it home isn't really our style. We like it nice and slow.
The head of my cock does grow before orgasm and we both feel the tightness and friction before I orgasm. After some thought last night and discussing this with my wife we are going to look into using some lube. I think we feel it is a combination of a number of things, her libido, my size, and sex post her orgasm that is contributing to her soreness.
Thanks again for everyone's helpful comments and advice.