Ok, So I have thick black hair and a dark appearance (features) yet I have very white complexion. I don't tan easily, and regardless I don't think it's healthy to do so (skin cancer or leather skin is NOT worth it). I've been told by women that they find the contrast very appealing, but I know that these same women find tan skin much more attractive. What's the story? Does this matter much to women, or is it on a case-by-case basis?