Pansexual Sauna

[jack_again]

I went to another sex club tonight. It's actually billed as a sauna. But the best thing, it's pansexual. The website says it's the first libertine club around catering to all proclivities. A tolerant club where heterosexuals, bisexuals, gays, transsexuals and transvestites can meet. I was sold.

I hustled down there, well before the rather early 10pm closing time, paid my entry and went to the showers. There were about 20 people there, it's not a giant place, maybe the square footage of your average gas station mini mart. Maybe. There were three confirmed women, and another who may have been a post-op transsexual. "She" had a very low voice and a scar at her bikini line. The genitals looked authentic enough as she reclined on the vinyl video room sofa and let man after man come and sink it home. About fifty, the tits were definitely implants and from behind she had more the build of a shorter, stocky man.

A lot of guys at first were crowded around the entry of a small room where one woman lay on her back and masturbated with her thighs open towards the door, and a second women, a very thin and rather lovely dark black woman selected suitors from the throng to lay it to her friend.

There was a basement area with gloryholes and a sling and a pitch black backroom, but it was completely void of any activity aside from the gay porn video flickering on the ceiling mounted television.

Everyone was issued towels, but being the exhibitionist I am, I carried mine slung over my should. And with all the pheromones floating around, I couldn't help but to have a rock-hard boner the entire time.

Most of the guys must have been straight, I don't think that there were any totally gay guys there, except for the possible exception of the two guys on door staff.

I hung out near the video room for a good time, watching this mystery wo/man getting pounded by guy after guy. I spent a good part of that time staring at this one guy's cock. He was in his forties, rather handsome and in rather good shape and possessed of a very nice, hard dick. He glanced at me a few times staring at his cock. After his turn he invited me to take mine, but I declined.

I stopped by the sauna for a moment, but the wooden bench boards were too hot for me to sit on. So, I ventured into the hammam. You go in and the air is so thick with steam that you can hardly make out the faint forms of figures within. Your eyes adjust to the dimness after a moment.

Soon, the same guy whose cock I was staring at came in. He mentioned the that the "slut" he was banging was good at what she did and started stroking his cock. I took cue and started stroking mine. He said, "It's good to stroke," and I agreed. Then he moved to my side and started stroking my cock and I started stroking his. He wanted to kiss me, but settled for nuzzling my neck and licking my nipples. It was so hot and humid in there that our hands slid easily over each others slippery body. Our fingers touched. He leaned back and I licked his balls and shaft and put my middle finger up his asshole.

He left for a shower as did I. And then we went back to watching the transsexual round-robin. He sat behind me on the raised platform entrance of this little room as I stood in the doorway. He put his hands up between my legs and stroked my cock from behind, it felt extremely good. Like jacking-off, edging, to a live porn show except with someone else doing the jacking. He was gentle and slow with my cock and balls, exquisite.

At this point, the black lady and her gal pal had moved their operation into the video room, side-by-side with the train lady. I eased into the room, almost everyone in the club had crowded around, and I beckoned my momentary boyfriend to follow. I wanted to suck his cock or have him fuck me with an audience next to the girls. However, I felt like he totally shifted and didn't want to be perceived as "bi" in that majorally straight crowd. He seemed to shy away when I handled his manhood. I didn't want to have sex with him unless it was in public. He again urged me to join him in a private cabin, but I went away, ostensibly to take a pee, dressed and left. But, I think that I'll return someday. And again

 

[treetruck]

sounds hot! maui only has a beach

 

[Bbucko]

I attended a Pansexual event last Saturday (a co-worker was one of the organizers) and I have to say that it wasn't exactly what I had expected, though the hard-core BDSM theme might have distorted my first real-life taste of the Pansexual movement as it was presented there.

The reality on the ground is that there was a general unease with the many female attendees on the part of the gay men (including my co-worker) that was impossible to ignore. There was also quite a bit of tension among the straight men who were loath to be perceived as in any way bisexual. Although invited, I chose to abstain from any participation in the "dungeons", so this observation is mostly anecdotal and hearsay (limited to conversations with the participants who had played in the dungeons), and the reading of much awkward body language.

It seems as though the extent of the "Pan" breaks down like this:

*Dommes who will willingly take male or female subs (the vast majority);
*Doms who want their female subs to play with each other at his direction;
*One guy who's a dom with women and a sub with men.

The vast majority of the participants, however, were gay men who had no interest in any polysexual interactions. They were there because the event organizers are billing it as a kind of alternate to IML: kinda like the difference between Miss Universe and Miss World. And yes: there was a pageant-like contest, complete with titles (though no crowns, alas).

My takeaway is that it's men (of all orientations) who will limit the extent to which Pansexualism makes any in-roads into the sexual psyche of the US.

 

[jack_again]

Thanks Bbucko for the very well thought-out response. Interesting what you mention about the power dynamic. I must say that I felt many of the straight men at the club were a bit skeeved-out by my bisexual behavoir. It was also interesting in retrospect to notice how the black girl was very in control regarding access to her gal pal. She would choose the guys, then apply a condom. She hollered at guys who tried to encroach on her friend unapproved. I really want to engage in some gay sex in public, and with a mixed crowd it would be ever so more exhilirating. They say that what it takes to be a pornstar is the ability to acheive and maintain an erection in front of total strangers, so I think I may have what it takes. There is a basement area with a sling and gloryholes reserved for the men. But, I would like to push the envelope and expose the ecstasy of pansexuality. Next time I go, I'll fuck with anything (just about) that moves. In public

 

[jack_again]

Well, as I stated the intention of doing so, I returned again to the pansexual sauna. I went later in the day this time and the place was full of gay and/or bi men. When I went to the communal shower, a guy grabbed my dick almost immediately. And then I was followed around for a good while by a pack of eager men who couldn't catch a clue. I wanted to settle in before getting down to any business. In the changing room there was this wild transvestite dancing like mad in front of the wall mirror in high heels and lingerie. I noticed also a bunch of guys hanging out in the entry water cooler area watching sports on TV. This must be where the straight guys hang out waiting for a woman or hetero couple to come in.

I have a thing for trannies, ladyboys, shemales, what-have-you, and last evening was my lucky night. I noticed a pair of hairless, feminine legs through the open doorway as I walked by one of the private rooms. A guy went in there and I peered in, trying to make out what was going on in the dimly lit area. The guy seemed to be massaging tits. I entered and sat at the mystery figure's knees and massaging the legs, I discovered a limp cock nestled under the towel wrapped around his/her waist. I massaged the legs some more and ran my hand up and down. Presently I started to caress the cock. Slowly and gently kneading it against the hips. Slowly it began to harden. As the other guy rather intently rubbed the tits, I licked the shaft and head, the crotch smelled very clean and nice. She began stroking my head and hair and forced me gently to go down on her cock, which I did. Some other guy started stroking my cock as I sucked her dick and soon there was a crowd of just about every patron in the place crowding around the doorway and watching us. She got up and took me into a different room, just the two of us where there was a lock on the door so that we wouldn't be inhibited by grabby hands and pushy guys.

Inside she lay down on a mat and I continued sucking her cock as she fingered my asshole. She had a nice big, thick and hard cock and she whispered to me in my ear to go all the way down on it. I put a condom on her dick and then she gently began to shove it in my ass - I needed more lubricant, but eventually she got it in and started pounding my ass deeply. I reached over and opened the door to the room to satisfy my exhibitionist nature, but had to quickly close it again due to all these clueless guys who wouldn't be satisfied just to watch and wank.

Afterwards we stayed for awhile and chatted, she was from Brazil. Her tits were nice to look at and she at a bouncy bubble butt. In the changing area she wanted my number. She asked if I was married, to which I said yes, which explained my hesitance. Maybe I'll see her again, I hope.

 

[jack_again]

So, after all of that, I'm wondering if I should return and try my luck again. I'm also interested in maybe going to a gay sauna with a pool (!). What should I do ??

 

[lopo2000]

Sorry to be a buzzkill because it's a hot story, but places like that, aren't they the perfect place for diseases to spread? Sorry for the ignorant question.

 

[justmeincal]

Go to a gay sauna and have fun. Just be sure to play safe.

So, after all of that, I'm wondering if I should return and try my luck again. I'm also interested in maybe going to a gay sauna with a pool (!). What should I do ??

 

[Bbucko]

So, after all of that, I'm wondering if I should return and try my luck again. I'm also interested in maybe going to a gay sauna with a pool (!). What should I do ??

I'm not sure where you're located. Here in Ft Lauderdale, we have two gay saunas plus one in Miami. The Club Ft Lauderdale is a really nice spot if you're looking to swim and lounge by their beautiful heated pool or work out in their excellently-appointed gym, but I've always found the sex there to be practically non-existent: lots of guys want to watch you have sex but few are interested in any actual physical contact themselves. If circle jerks are your cuppa tea, you'll probably think you've found heaven.

The Clubhouse II has no facilities to speak of beyond showers, a steam-room and a sauna, but the action's plentiful and pretty wild: maybe a little too out-of-control sometimes as safer-sex precautions are not always in evidence.

The Club Aqua in Miami, despite being in prestigious Coral Gables, is the skeeziest sex club I've ever personally visited. There's mold growing up the walls, the carpets are abominable, and the housekeeping is sketchy at best. The night I attended, the pool was out of service. But the action was intense and the guys were very hot and very friendly, so you never know.

And just FYI: although a condom and water-soluble lube when buttfucking will protect you from HIV, there are many ugly bacterial STDs which are easy to get and can be difficult and painful to get rid of, all of which are easily passed during oral sex, whether giving or receiving.

Good luck!

 

[jack_again]

Sorry to be a buzzkill because it's a hot story, but places like that, aren't they the perfect place for diseases to spread? Sorry for the ignorant question.

Yes, if you run the numbers it seems like the perfect place for an infection explosion. Though there's no such thing as 100% safe sex, I played safe using a condom for anal penetration and deep-throat cocksucking. Still the place is probably crawling with microbes on the floor and walls and everybody's hands and mouths. Sexclubs are not a very smart option I agree.

The thing about it is, I just find it exhilirating. I guess it's my exhibitionist nature which drives me to these public sex arenas. And the presence of women and straight men makes the scene all the more exciting. In fact, I think I may enjoy the sexual display more than the actual act. Most everyone wears towels around their waists and have to work-up erections, but me, I let it drop and let my boner fly. I love masturbating in front of a live audience.

I have vowed many times before that I would not engage in any extramarital homosexual escapades, not only due to the risk anonymous sex involves for myself, but for that of my wife as well ! However due to my weakness of will, I can't help myself. It's infuriating and I don't know what to do. To combat this urge I try to go on masturbation campaigns to curb my tide of homosexual lust and it works, for about 20 minutes. I don't know what to do, I can't un-gay myself. I don't betray my wife with women, never have, although of course I'm very attracted and sometimes tempted as well.

It's not an ignorant question, it's an astute observation. Thank you.

 

[jack_again]

Thanks again Bucko, food for thought. That's a very bad pun

 

[FeroxFemina]

Are pansexual saunas a US thing? There doesn't seem to be anything like that in London... straight with bi females or strictly gay and bi men

 

[jack_again]

There are a handful in Paris, not far for you... would that sort of thing turn you on ? It has straight, gay, bi, trans men and women and everything in between

 

[FeroxFemina]

That would really turn me on.... being surrounded by people who are completely comfortable with who they are and their sexuality.

I hate how clubs and swingers parties are absolutely fine with bi sexual females but gay and bi males are frowned upon, it's not fair.

I want to see and experience everything, no holding back!

 

[jack_again]

That would really turn me on.... being surrounded by people who are completely comfortable with who they are and their sexuality.

I hate how clubs and swingers parties are absolutely fine with bi sexual females but gay and bi males are frowned upon, it's not fair.

I want to see and experience everything, no holding back!

I'm right with you there with that sentiment. I saw a bi porn movie billed as, "If you wanna swing - you gotta swing both ways !" lol

And regarding your comment on the small tits thread - nice tits are nice tits - and yours fall into that category !

 

[midlifebear]

Buenos Aires has Anchorena, a corner building not quite in Barrio Norte or Palermo Viejo. It advertises itself as a "swingers" club. Tuesdays have become "gay" night. I visited the place only two times. They don't care if you're gay or straight, just as long as you're honest about what you claim. If you're straight and want to play on gay night, just tell the bouncer you straight. He'll give you a blue day-glo wrist band. If you don't, you'll get kicked out. Similarly if you're gay, regardless of the night of the week. Gays get pink day glow wrist bands. It just cuts down on the confusion.

Both times I went with a lipstick lesbian friend who claimed it was the only place she could have sex with women she liked. The place has four floors. The main floor is a restaurant bar with a dance floor. There is a sex shop so you can buy condoms and toys if you forgot to bring your own. On the second floor there is a locker area where you disrobe and lock away valuables. You can wander around in your underwear or a robe. Most people wore robes the nights I attended. The second and third floors had "couples" rooms with two beds in them and the walls were drilled full of glory holes for folks wanting to peep or stick their tools through. The fourth floor was nude only and included the usual lounge furniture where couples and small groups could gather in dim light to feel one another up and have sex. Mostly, everyone just felt everyone else up and made out. There were connecting dark rooms where most went off to have anonymous, or at least semi-anonymous, group sex.

Argentine men are a bit different than most "white folks" in the USA and Europe. They like to show off their equipment and have no problem checking each other out by grabbing your cock and comparing it to theirs. But the homo erotic action usually ends there, unless they are bi. About the only "thrilling" experience I had was a 30 something guy insist that he and the woman he was fucking be able to play with and suck on my dick as they fucked. Beyond that, not much happened I found to be remotely exciting. But during both visits many men wanted the opportunity to fondle my dick and balls and comment "¡Qué bueno! ¿No?" But they weren't fascinated enough that they would let me fuck them OR their dates.

The place is still very much alive and doing business. Sometimes single men are allowed entrance. But it's usually 100 Pesos per couple. I've had much more interesting experiences attending "lifestyle" parties in Nevada, San Diego, and La Jolla.

 

[Nessie3k]

Thanks Bbucko for the very well thought-out response. Interesting what you mention about the power dynamic. I must say that I felt many of the straight men at the club were a bit skeeved-out by my bisexual behavoir. It was also interesting in retrospect to notice how the black girl was very in control regarding access to her gal pal. She would choose the guys, then apply a condom. She hollered at guys who tried to encroach on her friend unapproved. I really want to engage in some gay sex in public, and with a mixed crowd it would be ever so more exhilirating. They say that what it takes to be a pornstar is the ability to acheive and maintain an erection in front of total strangers, so I think I may have what it takes. There is a basement area with a sling and gloryholes reserved for the men. But, I would like to push the envelope and expose the ecstasy of pansexuality. Next time I go, I'll fuck with anything (just about) that moves. In public

I enjoyed reading about u guys experiences thanks are there any clubs in the Atlanta Ga area and how much is it to join the party ?. Thx for any responses...