Just a warning, this post is mostly a rant. Scroll to the **** to get to the question. Ok, so my dad made me late for school today, and I confronted him in the car about it on the way to school. Needless to say, we argued and said some things that triggered a meltdown for me, so I yelled at him even more and every time he tried to make some snide comment back, I totally shot it down. He was extremely rude, even for him. I'm not saying I was perfectly nice, but he just pissed me off to the point of no return. Then he tried blaming it on me, and I just got out of the car and walked into the school, in a very bad mood, and he wouldnt call the school excusing my lateness because of him. Jerk. Once I got out, it was him driving me home, when its 9 times out of 10 my stepmom. He just picked me up to try to get the last word in. I get in the car and he growls at me saying "Are you done being and insolant little bitch yet? So I snapped something back at him and tried placing all the blame on my stepmom, again, as usual. Whatever, I told him I'm over it if he is, and he said ok and was fine for about 30 seconds, then he started again. We got home and I came upstairs, open the door, and find my room has been thorough gone through and trashed. Needless to say I freaked, and he tried saying he was cleaning, and we started fighting again, almost literally. Cleaning, in my book, doesnt mean knocking over the computer monitor and phone. We argued more and I kicked him out of my room, almost literally. You all know how much patience I typically have too! It was bad, really bad, and I'm calling my mom as to see when I can move back in with her. This isn't the time he has done this. Enough is enough! I don't honestly hate anyone, or very many people at least. I do honestly hate him. All we do is spite eachother. Sometimes I even catch myself hoping he would just drop dead, and actually meaning it. He just doens't know when to give up, or let things go! I gave him plenty of chances to bury the hatchet. He is beginning to go too far. Ok, Rant over, for now. * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Do you and another family member(s) spite eachother just to get even, or always have to get the last word and still just pick fights, or just plain don't get along with? I'm pretty sure what I'm dealing with isn't normal. What about everyone else? How do you get along with your family?