it's hard a part of me wants to sit down with them and tell them im not gay. i know my mother knows im not but it's been so hard. but then i see couples and im not in a relationship. i've avoided my own feelings for so long. i'd watch porn at night straight, gay, or whatever else. But, I don't think I'm gay. Because, I could've had sex with a man long time ago if thats what I wanted. i see swole bodies and wish i had one. i look at porn and see a large penis and wish i had one.
I've neglected my body and just focused on distractions from my own life. Joining clubs, activities, events, being online all hours of the day on entertainment and gaming forums. then i'd go into isolation. i really don't think its me being gay. because, i dont think i could bring myself to do that. i've tried and i dont think so. people say it but i can't. i went through puberty hella late and i went to a black school system so most my peers thought i was gay because my voice and not to mention i was the only rican there who spoke dead proper english.
i think its my penis. i've become scared that no one would accept me for it and because i couldn't accept me for it. i closed off. and just kept myself distracted. when i was a child i fooled around with cousins but my cousins fooled around and they all have wives now.
i dont want to live the life of being gay because so many people seem to be so unhappy being gay even one of my older professors was in his 40's single. its just not something i could deal with. doesn't look like something that would fulfill me in the long run of my life.
i dont know how to overcome my own insecurities.
I've neglected my body and just focused on distractions from my own life. Joining clubs, activities, events, being online all hours of the day on entertainment and gaming forums. then i'd go into isolation. i really don't think its me being gay. because, i dont think i could bring myself to do that. i've tried and i dont think so. people say it but i can't. i went through puberty hella late and i went to a black school system so most my peers thought i was gay because my voice and not to mention i was the only rican there who spoke dead proper english.
i think its my penis. i've become scared that no one would accept me for it and because i couldn't accept me for it. i closed off. and just kept myself distracted. when i was a child i fooled around with cousins but my cousins fooled around and they all have wives now.
i dont want to live the life of being gay because so many people seem to be so unhappy being gay even one of my older professors was in his 40's single. its just not something i could deal with. doesn't look like something that would fulfill me in the long run of my life.
i dont know how to overcome my own insecurities.
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