Parents asked if i was gay.

[B_dxjnorto]

Move out of your parents' home.

You're dead on your English except for piqued vs. peaked.

 

[Adrian69702006]

You are getting some excellent suggestions here about getting fit. Would recommend that you take them. As you get more fit your self esteem will undoubtedly improve.
I too have a hypospadias condition which really bothered me growing up. I was very self conscious about it, etc. so I can really identify with you. I don't know how serious yours is, but mine is fairly high up so I can pee standing etc. In any case it did not stop me. Some one suggested repair, but from what I have seen in looking into it, repair is rather risky. If you have don't any looking around the internet at other cocks you will see many larger than yours, but also many smaller too. So I guess I would say make the best of what you have and can change.

I was born with hypospadias and had a number of operations when I was younger to try and correct it. Although the last one was forty years ago and surgical procedures have doubtless moved on somewhat since then, I'd advise anyone who's made to adult life NOT to have surgery unless their meatus is really miles from where it should be. The operations I had were a major hassle and I'm not convinced they made a big difference to what was so far as I was concerned, a fairly minor problem.

 

[D_Myer_Dogasflees]

If you were Jewish in Nazi occupied Germany, would you say that you were one?


Tell you what, if ever you could bring some kind of clear cut defensive assertion forward, do so immediately, it will bring you protection too. BUILD AN ARMY!

Don't just tell your best friend or a single family member, tell all and tell all at once, and make sure you've got reasoned friend or people in similar situations at you're defense as well.

 

[D_Myer_Dogasflees]

#2, given the current situation with the public and how it is still viewed in many nations, THEY HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK.

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

Learn how to make love to a woman - to arouse her - to make her feel extraordinary - how to bring her to orgasm (repeatedly if possible). Learn the anatomy of women and learn how to master it all - become a lover!
- Ed

He has to love him self before he can love someone else.

 

[battlepancho]

Hey man, i have a lot of good friends in the world and a few of my best ones are girls. One thing were open about to each other on any level is relationships, because hearing the others opinion without genre bias can be helpful. "uhh sean why hasn't my bf been calling or wanting to do anything all weekend, is he pushing from me?'. No, he plays xbox, Halo Reach just came out. Just interpreting situations differently.

Anyway, they have dated guys and we got into topic of dick size, they've had bigger/smaller guys etc.. I asked if there was a difference, they said yes in size you can feel it but it depends on how good they use it, they've climaxed for often with smaller guys just because they put more emphasis on it!. So why does this age old saying matter, well I heard it straight from a first hand source and not some random chick on the internet.

 

[FuzzyKen]

For reasons unknown parents are always concerned about their children. It is part of the duty of being a parent and being one in the past few years has placed me in that situation.

You have confessed to a great number of personal insecurities in your life and there may be some cause to talk to a psychiatric professional if it is too tough for you.

One of the worst problems is that insecurities we all have can without intention be reinforced by the words or behavior of others. Sadly the damage takes place often on a subconscious level. The damage reinforces the insecurities or negative self image.

One of the first things you need to do is to invest in yourself. An investment in yourself is the best investment you can make because it pays dividends that last a lifetime.

As far as your penis size you have indicated a great deal of insecurity on that issue. That is not at all unusual. What you probably won't believe is that there are guys out there who are in reality much larger than average who still feel that they are not big enough. Imagine a man with eight inches who feels that this still not enough because they do exist.

When people are overweight penis size can be drastically impacted based on how you carry the weight. There is a "fat pad" that develops in the groin over the top of the penis and you can easily lose two inches in length from that fat pad. If you were one unlucky enough to have substantial deposits in and around the groin it can cost you a great deal of size.

From what I hear you are a guy who has a great deal of self confidence issues as well. This comes across in your writing and in the feelings you expose.

If you were to get your weight down you would with little doubt increase the size of your penis because you increase its penetrating ability.

You need to first believe in yourself and you need to believe that you are worth the investment of your own time in yourself. The past is a cashed check my friend, the future is a dividend yet to be paid.

As far as your parents asking about your orientation my advice is to ignore it and pretend that it never happened just for now. That is a negative for you and in reality your actual orientation does not matter. The fact that you were asked by a parent about your orientation at a time you are struggling with many issues is far more the issue.

Later, after you have had some time to invest in yourself in other ways, you will be far better able to deal with the questions because you will have after the investment improved your self confidence.