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One day this week my mother opened my door and I was getting out of bed which I sleep nude and I quickly covered up I was just wondering what other people think about being naked in front of there parents
 

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Was naked with and in front of my Dad hundreds of times from very small chilhood well into adulthood....NOT my mom since she changed my nappies. I hope. eewwwwwww. (term nappies was used for the cool guy(s) flying the union jack)
 
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kamakazedaddy: Horny6.5.....don't see what the big deal is! Remember you came out of her womb naked, and she washed, and cared for you for many years. So you've got a little pubic hair now and you're larger...What's the big deal? People are too hung up on nudity...especially in North America.
 

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Originally posted by kamakazedaddy@Jun 24 2004, 04:42 PM
"...What's the big deal? People are too hung up on nudity...especially in North America."
Could be.

Spontaneous and impromtu episodes of getting caught by surprise are for the most part unavoidable. They should not be fretted over. In fact, the less that's made of such moments, the better. MAKING issues over these unexpected glimpses is what causes problems and sets up wrong ideas especially (among the young) that somehow just by seeing someone's genitals is horrible. THAT'S a big contributing factor I think behind North America's "problem". Also the fact we've been scared to death to discuss sex with our young people....until it's often too late. They get into trouble or, have difficulties with sexual issues. --Then, they're really messed up.

So, horny---forget about what happened. Go on with life. Not allowing this occurance to haunt you marks more maturity on your part than what your mother ever saw that morning. And should SHE ever bring it up with a "negative tone" about it, remember your mom will have the real problem and certainly not you.
 

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I guess I'm kind of an outlaw in this topic 'cause I'm Swedish.
I grew up in a cool family where nudity among the family was not an issue. Nudity was perfectly normal and acceptable among the family.
I've seen my parents nude ever since I was born so I learned how perfectly normal adults look in the buff.
It was not strange. It was perfectly normal and ok. There was nothing to it.
I feel so sorry for the children that grows up whitout learning how an adult man and women looks like.
 
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kamakazedaddy: Exactly what Bender said! That's what I wanted to say...except he says it more eloquently!!
 

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My parents never ever made an issue out of being naked. If we happened to walkin on either parent nobody flinced or tried to cover up. I think when I hit puberty that I decided to try and change the rules. I GOT SHY! Eventually relaxed and was more careful and respectful of each other privacy.
Where the hell my parents became so easy going about sex, nudity, preference I have no idea. Primarily because all of my grandparents were door locking hide in the bedroom and donot discuus folks. I thank my parents for being so open minded! B)
 
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I guess I'm like KinkGuy: I've been naked in front of my father plenty of times, but not my mother at any time in my memory.
 

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Dad has seen me naked. I don't think that Mom has seen me naked since I've reached adulthood, but I doubt that it would faze either of us. She has seen adult penes before, and she realises that I have one, so I don't see that it would be any big issue.
 

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I like that attitude.
I have tried over the years to adopt a healthier attitude
about nudity in general.
But i was not raised to think that it was OK.
I think the message that i got from my parents
was that it was "wrong" or something.
Maybe that wasnt the intended message, but it
was the one that came through to me.

It was not until my adulthood that i could
be comfortably naked in front of anyone but
my partner.
 

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When I was about 12 my dad saw me walking naked to the bathroom. At that age I was already not far off my adult size "downstairs", and seeing my very full, bulging scrotum he remarked "so I see you won't have too much trouble providing us with grandchildren!" :lol:
 
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palladen: Dad: never (unless as a baby counts)
Mom: the last time (and only time) was when I was 11 and she saw me coming out of the bathtub and mentioned that it looked like I was taking after my father. Only took me 4 years to figure that one out!

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I'm sure most people know this about me by now, as I've said it lots, but it's relevant to this topic, so i'll say it again! Me and mom are pretty open of course, and being nude around the house has always been common.
 

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Mom: last time was probably middle childhood (7-9?)
Dad: We stripped naked in the laundry room after getting home from a hunting trip to check for ticks (I was 16 I think)
Brothers: Never.
 
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advice for sister please.
my young nephew has, so i'm told, got the family 'big dick' gene. she has seen me hanging when younger so knows it doen't come from hubby! Recently she has overheard him telling his young friends that he can 'kiss the tip of it when it gets hard'. She is certain he has been showing off this skill even tho he is not yet at high school. Although it is perfectly natural to explore at that age she feels he might get into trouble if older guys know about his size. should she tell him to stop?
 

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Originally posted by tripod2004@Jul 11 2004, 05:39 PM
should she tell him to stop?
No. It would do about as much good as telling him that it'll grow hair on the tip of his tongue.

Boys listen to their moms unless it has to do with hormones. He'll stop showing off only when somebody does it better than he does.

The best thing Mom can do is to stop eavesdropping. :p
 

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Boys listen to their dick more than they listen to Mom. Even in the days of masturbation causing every disease known to man, boys continued to masturbate.
 
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Buddy: I am a triplet, who shared a bed with my brothers for 22 years. Dad would walk in to the bathroom while we were using it to ask a silly question. One of us in the shower, the other on the loo, and the last at the sink.
We were down at the lake skinny dipping, just laying out when Dad came by to cool off too. That was the first time I remember seeing Dad naked. He's a big man, 6'6", 225#. Mom must have been happy. He is probably 9".
Mom always saw us naked, she was always around. But I don't think she ever saw us jerking off.
The morning that Mom died, Dad came into to the bedroom, threw on the lights and pulled the covers down to get our attention. We all slept nude. We all jumped, and rooled over on our stomaches and about killed ourselfs. Bonners are ment to go up!
After Mom was gone we all, including Dad, would sometimes walk around the house naked.
Dad caught is j/o in the den one night when we were about 15y/o, watching a porn movie. The next weekend Dad took us camping. He said it was time to have a "birds and bees' talk. He had us strip so that all questions could be answered. Dad joined in jerking off that night.