When did kids become so frail that mommy and daddy have to spoon-feed them everything? When did kids all become so stupid and clueless that it's assumed they can't inform themselves of anything, especially in this age of abundant access to information? It's been a lot of years since I was a teenager, but nobody's parents that I knew talked to them about sex, we still all found out what we needed to know, and none of us was the worse for it. I don't disagree that talking to kids about this stuff is or can be a part of responsible parenting, but seriously, we have another "crisis" on our hands because mommy and daddy didn't have "the talk"? Let's get real here - sex education isn't that complicated, and kids aren't going to be hugely disadvantaged or scarred for life simply because they didn't get their information from mommy and daddy.
Yes, kids do stupid and risky things. They get each other pregnant, etc. My experience has almost universally been that it isn't lack of information that causes this, it's the fact that kids are kids - they're immature, irresponsible, and easily swayed by peer pressure, and will do stupid things, even when they know it's wrong. If talking to kids non-stop and getting into their faces all the time over anything, from homework to sex really made that much of an impact, a great many problems that have persisted for decades and sometimes longer would have been solved a long time ago.
Yes, kids do stupid and risky things. They get each other pregnant, etc. My experience has almost universally been that it isn't lack of information that causes this, it's the fact that kids are kids - they're immature, irresponsible, and easily swayed by peer pressure, and will do stupid things, even when they know it's wrong. If talking to kids non-stop and getting into their faces all the time over anything, from homework to sex really made that much of an impact, a great many problems that have persisted for decades and sometimes longer would have been solved a long time ago.