Parents think I am gay

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don't worry about what your mum says about YOUR relationship behavior. You're a grown up and really it's none of her business unless YOU choose to make it so. period.

Enjoy whom you fancy, play safe and have a good time.

M*


Althought I was never asked, it was my thought that it really was no ones business what my sexual make up was...they would probably been upset if they had know I was gay....but accepted it...I never had the chance to find out before they passed on.
But it would have killed them if I had said I was BI...that I know.
 

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I have to agree with BigDuder, Mom found out that you were looking at big cocks on the internet. If your'e not dating or talking about women and she knows that you have been checking out guys packages, she is going to think that you are gay. Add some women to your porn viewing to give Detective Mom some relief. Or, just let her know that you are a little curious like most other men. Maybe you should check out her browsing history. She may have made it to LPSG herself and found some big ones. By now, she may even be a member. I would be careful, she may be reading all your posts.

*gasp* how embrassing would THAT be........mom reading all the posts.....gah lol
 

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*gasp* how embrassing would THAT be........mom reading all the posts.....gah lol
In my case I have to tell my family that I'm gay to make them leave me alone in the shit of why I dont have kids and why I dont get married.:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
 

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o dont get me wrong biguy2738. My dad is one of the biggest homophobic people on the face of this earth and would disown me if I ever decided to come out the closet. My mom would not disown me i dont think but she would not approve, and would probrabally stop talking to me as frequently as she does Now about 4 times a week. that would slow down to maybe once a month. I guess my mom would still somewhat love me because I am her son, but they REALLY dont agree with homosexuality.........and the fact that i am in-different towards homosexuallity might make them uncomfortable.

Not that your folks will ever have to deal with it but you'd be surprised at how much parents can change after their son or daughter comes out of the closet. It's not an instant thing but people have an ability to grow and develop in ways you would never expect, especially if they are given sufficient motivation like maintaining a relationship with a son they love dearly.
 

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Dad: You know, you two spend all of your time together.

Me: Yep.

Dad: So why don't you ever like, go out on dates with girls?

Me: I dunno. I have before.

Dad: But not lately...

Me: So...

Dad: Do the girls not like you?

Me: I don't care...

Dad: ...do the boys not like you?:confused:

Me: ............

^^Three years ago when I was 18.
My best friend and I spent every possible moment together and still do...this concerns my pops...LOL. You are not alone! :biggrin1:
 

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I could never win with my parents.

Well, i blame my sexual deviance on my upbringing, only child mother obsessed, etc. I was never into sports and was fat anyway so was stuck with girls as friends. This for some reason never struck as weird.

Things that have made my parents think I'm gay are finding I owned lube, which wasn't even for gay sex, saying my best friend was a guy (wtf), and me having a magazine that was some gay community thing (granted that was a real clue but actually I had it cos there was an interview with Amelle berrabah and I think she's fit, I didnt even know what magazine it was)

I am bi but the worry and prejudice I would cause them or it would cause me means I don't ever see myself coming out to them. I reckon they wouldn't care so much but I can do without them sticking their noses in. I always have and will identify as straight. I don't like labels anyway, I'm just me.

My parents know nothing of my love life and unless it's serious they never will...
 

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This past sunday my mom basically said she was worried that I was keeping somthing from her because I never talk about relationships i have and what girls I might be interested in at school......she then said that i will accept you no matter if i like a him or a her lol, just curious has anyone ever had that awkard conversation with their parents???????



o yeah I am only a little bi-curious, all I really want to with a guy is jackoff with them nothing more, just some little male bonding lol


Dude -
If you wanna show em that you are mostly straight - then take a girl home and snog her on the sofa and let em catch you
If you wanna show em that you is bi-curious, then take a girl home one night and snog on sofa, and on the second night take a boy home and repeat the exercise
 

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I'd always had girlfriends but that my parents were so awkward and inept that I just didn't want to introduce that to the girls I was seeing. I thought it would be really off-putting to them.

haha, this is the same thing that happens to me :wink:

i was taken aback when my mother began the conversation...