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Do you ever suspect your partner has been looking at porn on line or chatting behind your back? Or do you look at porn or chat behind your partners back?

What is your reasoning for doing it and why do you suspect your partner and why do you think they may be doing it?
 
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Do you ever suspect your partner has been looking at porn on line or chatting behind your back? Or do you look at porn or chat behind your partners back?

What is your reasoning for doing it and why do you suspect your partner and why do you think they may be doing it?
I look at a lot of porn every day it’s normal, the odd chat here and there just for fun
 

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I'd rather have sex with my partner than watch porn, any day. Doesn't mean I don't watch it...
 
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Everyone is free to masturbate and porn is just media. If it was homemade porn via WhatsApp with a real human bean.... I would skin him alive.

Says it all
A friend of mine using masturbation to make me fuck her
She knows i cant resist a long time
 

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I dont consider porn watching to be a "behind the back" action. I've done it since whenever, most of my partners have as well. Typically we dont interact into each others porn watching, but are aware and not threatened by it.
Chatting is a different story, along the same lines as camming, tributes and the like...there's a personal connection made on a level. I dont engage in it, and I make it clear from the onset of the relationship I consider it a form of infidelity.
I think there's a somewhat corrupted foundation under a relationship where one deems consumption of an actors/actresses impersonal work for personal enjoyment or masturbatory purposes as infidelity...unless there is some demeaning or illegal aspect of that work that interferes with the relationship itself.
 
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