Hi all, Firstly I would just like to say this forum has been a wealth of information for me and I have gained some great knowledge but I would like to post a personal problem me and my partner have while having sex. OK the major problem is that I take some time to ejaculate while having sex (sometimes as long as an hour or more) I feel the reason for this is because a few positions do not offer me much or any penis sensitivity, and the positions I enjoy (from behind and reverse cg) my partner finds 'full' penetration quite painful. She enjoys the missionary position best for clitoral stimulation, especially if I am slightly above her, but this position offers me very little feeling. We do both enjoy the 'spoons' position but my penetration needs to be quite slow as again anything faster causes her pain. The other problem is that she achieves orgasm very quickly, sometimes less than 3 minutes! To put this into perspective I only achieve ejaculation possibly 20% of the time and usually need to finish off in the bathroom :frown1: My partner knows my problem only too well and we have spoken about it numerous times. Has anybody else ever suffered with this problem as it really gets me frustrated. thanks beppe.