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I've been with my (male) partner for coming up to four years. Overall, it's a great relationship. He's very kind and sweet, and I'm happy.
That being said, lately the sex between us has become very few and far between. Sometimes it's weeks, or even months between us having sex. Not only sex, but even oral or handjobs.
I've tried to instigate things, but for different reasons he's reluctant. I've even (jokingly) directly asked for a blowjob.
He's affectionate and tactile like normal, but it never goes further than that, which leads me to believe he might just have a low sex drive. I have a mid-high sex drive so I'm finding it difficult. I want to stay in the relationship, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life only wanking. I should say that when we do have sex, it's really good, which is why I want more!
I haven't talked to him yet, but before I did I thought I might seek a bit of advice. I'm worried I might offend or upset him. Anyone else been in the same situation that could help me out?
That being said, lately the sex between us has become very few and far between. Sometimes it's weeks, or even months between us having sex. Not only sex, but even oral or handjobs.
I've tried to instigate things, but for different reasons he's reluctant. I've even (jokingly) directly asked for a blowjob.
He's affectionate and tactile like normal, but it never goes further than that, which leads me to believe he might just have a low sex drive. I have a mid-high sex drive so I'm finding it difficult. I want to stay in the relationship, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life only wanking. I should say that when we do have sex, it's really good, which is why I want more!
I haven't talked to him yet, but before I did I thought I might seek a bit of advice. I'm worried I might offend or upset him. Anyone else been in the same situation that could help me out?