Partner's numbers

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by goagain, Nov 16, 2007.

  1. goagain

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    Men or Women, Do you tell your partner the real number for previous sexual partners? How many makes a man think a woman is too promiscuous? Does a lady really want to know her man's count, should one simply tell a litttle white lie?
     
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    Not only does she know, she knows a good number of my past partners. She even goes shopping with one on a regular basis.
     
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    No woman on the face of this earth is going to tell the truth unless it's 2 or less.
     
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    I never count sexual encounters I didn't enjoy :)
     
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    Depends whom I'm telling...
     
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    I don't know if you really know any woman, saying that kind of crap.
    What makes you think women have to lie about how many theyv'e been with?
    Perhaps the ones you chose,did tell you the truth, and you had a problem with the numbers. That sounds about right to me,as the reason you would make such an asinine statement.
    Not all men are so insecure about other men.
    Hooray for the guys who love their partners regardless of who,or how many, they've been with.Why lie about it?
    What's important is the here and now.
    I for one applaud you fella's!
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    Um, sweetie... it's not such much about insecurity (i couldn't care less, as i'm the best they've had (or will) )... nor the male bravado... in fact... MOST MEN tone the number down and vehemently lie about the total.... or if a bit older... give some figure like (in the last 7 years ...only 3... ).
     
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    It depends. Personally, I never ask that question. Is he a total manwhore? Does he have a history of unprotected sex? Then yes I want to know the real number.


    Not true. :mad: I told the truth once, back when the real number was only 5. He freaked out and things went downhill from there. He started jokingly calling me a slut. Turns out that although he was only 3 years older than me I was only the 2nd woman he had ever been with. I dumped him.



    :eek: Wow! I am nowhere near that evolved. :eek:
     
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    I would like to think that my exes count me as two.
     
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    In the begining i told her of my past . So no secrets.
     
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    I've never lied about my numbers.
     
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    Uh, yeah... that's bullshit.

    I don't know what my numbers are for sure, so I give a range. I stopped counting at 26, but it's less than 35... I tried making a list recently, but I couldn't remember more than 15. Go ahead, call me what you want. lol. I know who I am and who I was. :smile: I'm secure enough with myself to share that info with ya'll.

    Anywho... I really do want to know my mans count. Not so I can judge him on how much of a slut he is, but just out of curiosity... I somewhat loosely base a guys number of sexual encounters with how good he may be in bed, but I'm sure we all know that it doesn't necessarily mean anything. More partners does NOT equal better in bed. But it can help me get an idea anyway. I never lie about my total. If a guy is going to judge me based on my past, then I don't want to be with him anyway.
     
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    I have always been totally honest. In truth I broke up with one of my former partners because he lied about how many gals he had been with before me. I feel if he couldn't be honest with me about his past then what else would he hide from me.
     
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    I totally agree with Ed69's Girl. If my boyfriend asks, I'll be honest. I figure honesty is the best policy in all areas of a relationship.

    One of my buds is bi and married. Let's just say that back in the day, he bought condoms by the case. He was honest with her about how many men and women he'd been with and she hit him with a number that was close to his. I asked if that bothered him and he said "She's damn good in bed. I know she didn't learn all that shit from a book!".
     
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    So when a guy asks you, you say 26. Ok cool. But it really is something like 35? And how is that telling the truth?
     
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    Hypothetically if a woman was with 50 guys you think she's going to be "oh I've fucked 50 guys". I could care less. Most of the women I've been with have refused to tell me saying "it's none of my business"...oh and thats after they have asked me how many I've been with.
     
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    There you go. Most women in your situation would probably never tell the truth after that incident.
     
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