It's definitely a turn-on to find out I'm her largest - I usually am, but then I haven't been with very experienced girls - most of them have had less than ten partners, some not even five. Other times I think they're just trying to stroke my ego. My most recent girlfriend told me I was the biggest she's been with and the suspicion of her bullshitting me crept into my mind again - but then we tried anal sex and my head would still not go in after ten minutes of coaxing. Then she mentioned that her last lover (who she had regular anal with) was only about five inches with a tiny head, so at that point I knew I believed her. I guess it can sometimes be hard to objectively know where you stand in the dick department. Not that it matters a whole lot really.
partners talking about ex's size?
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talking about exes is only awkward if you're not comfortable being yourself. i don't think it's always bad to talk about previous sizes if the topic is ever brought up. plus talking about it allows me to think back and laugh my ass off at all the dumb things that happened in the past 
I've only had three girls I have been with talk about their other partners. One had thought that I was almost a giant which I admit made me feel pretty great. I know she had only a few partners before me but being 6.5"x 5.5" thats a pretty great thing to hear.
The other two were both with at least one guy who was rather hung. The first girl was with a guy which claimed to be about 9" which I assume was true since she was with him about a week before. I assume he was thicker but there wasn't much comment on that so I doubt he was really very girthy.
Now I am with a girl who told me that one of her ex boyfriends was very well endowed when we were talking about how she gives a great BJ. She told me that he loved getting BJ's and that she got used to taking in lots of girth. She told me she coudln't get her hand around his shaft but could still take him deep into her mouth and that she had to get used to him, since he was 10" long and about 7" around. I was curious and asked how she knew because of course I am always left wondering if a girl actually did measure a cock she is talking about, and apparently she was so curious and enjoyed his "amazing" size so much that she actually took a tape measure and sized him up herself.
I am sure a lot of people might find that to be way to much info to synthesis at one time, being how insecure a lot of guys are. But getting great BJ's really will tend to take the edge off.
The other two were both with at least one guy who was rather hung. The first girl was with a guy which claimed to be about 9" which I assume was true since she was with him about a week before. I assume he was thicker but there wasn't much comment on that so I doubt he was really very girthy.
Now I am with a girl who told me that one of her ex boyfriends was very well endowed when we were talking about how she gives a great BJ. She told me that he loved getting BJ's and that she got used to taking in lots of girth. She told me she coudln't get her hand around his shaft but could still take him deep into her mouth and that she had to get used to him, since he was 10" long and about 7" around. I was curious and asked how she knew because of course I am always left wondering if a girl actually did measure a cock she is talking about, and apparently she was so curious and enjoyed his "amazing" size so much that she actually took a tape measure and sized him up herself.
I am sure a lot of people might find that to be way to much info to synthesis at one time, being how insecure a lot of guys are. But getting great BJ's really will tend to take the edge off.
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It never bothered me to hear about the size of my exes' cocks, because I was pretty much always the biggest, which was very cool to hear and was a big turn on.
It did bother me, however, when I was the ex boyfriend and was hanging out with my ex girlfriend, who I still loved and who had broken up with me and had caused me great despair. She was casually talking about her new life in a new city and her new boyfriend and how his cock was "so huge," it felt like her "ovaries were going to pop every time" they did it. She said they didn't do it as often as she would like or as often as we had - which made me feel better. Until she minimized the notion, saying it was probably because "his cock was so big, it took up too much energy to fill it up and get hard every day." Ouch! Talk about despair!
It did bother me, however, when I was the ex boyfriend and was hanging out with my ex girlfriend, who I still loved and who had broken up with me and had caused me great despair. She was casually talking about her new life in a new city and her new boyfriend and how his cock was "so huge," it felt like her "ovaries were going to pop every time" they did it. She said they didn't do it as often as she would like or as often as we had - which made me feel better. Until she minimized the notion, saying it was probably because "his cock was so big, it took up too much energy to fill it up and get hard every day." Ouch! Talk about despair!
Last year I met a girl from highschool that I haven t seen for years.
I knew from a friend that she was working as an escort-girl.
She has been always very attractive and still is.
After a bottle of wine - I was curious to know about her profession.
So I set the conversation carefull in that direction.
She told me that she has 5 to 10 "meetings" a week.
To bring it down to this topic - when the client was average - she told him he was big.
Little above average - the biggest she ever had. Under average - she wouldn t mention it.
I asked her what the biggest was that she had. Somewhere in the 9" range - she hasn t had a true 10 incher.
I always measure when I see something really big - because it is for the client a big turn on.
Maybe that only the smaller or average guys are hiring an escort - but when a girl has had several 8"+ encounters... and talk about it with her current lover?
Current lovers are always the best, the biggest, ...
I knew from a friend that she was working as an escort-girl.
She has been always very attractive and still is.
After a bottle of wine - I was curious to know about her profession.
So I set the conversation carefull in that direction.
She told me that she has 5 to 10 "meetings" a week.
To bring it down to this topic - when the client was average - she told him he was big.
Little above average - the biggest she ever had. Under average - she wouldn t mention it.
I asked her what the biggest was that she had. Somewhere in the 9" range - she hasn t had a true 10 incher.
I always measure when I see something really big - because it is for the client a big turn on.
Maybe that only the smaller or average guys are hiring an escort - but when a girl has had several 8"+ encounters... and talk about it with her current lover?
Current lovers are always the best, the biggest, ...
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