Past Her Prime

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  1. DasLeezard

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    So, my question to the gentlemen, the assholes, the regular guys, both gay, straight, and everywhere in between (I'm a sucker for a wide opinion base)... when do you consider a woman to be past her prime, looks wise? Does having stretchmarks, surgery scars, and cellulite speed up the process? Is it when she weighs 20 lbs more than she did in high school? Is it when she finally gets that first wrinkle? Or is it a set age?


    Many thanks for your time and consideration.
     
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    To me some women even older, overweight, yada yada yada, can be very sexy if they exude confidence. I think once they lose self esteem then it's over.

    WR
     
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    For me it's only when somebody defines herself, or himself, that way.
     
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    40
    (I hate these questions, that I shoudln't answer because I don't want to be hated, but dammit, people want to know this shit, and I'd say 40 is pretty much the agreed upon past her prime age. )

    Of course, I would marry porn star magdalene, and I think she is 53 or something.
     
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    Same time as a man. When she stops taking care of herself. There are men in their mid 40s that look better than guys in their early 20's by a long shot. It all comes down to when someone stops taking care of themselves. Hot is hot. If someone is hot, they take care of themselves, and they care about how they look. It may be much more difficult as you age, but some people do go to the trouble.

     
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    I disagree. There are two types of women after 40, those who will age gracefully, and those who look like Nancy Pelosi.
     
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    To me, women can be very sexy and appealing even into old age if they maintain an interest in themselves as women and what a woman can mean mean to a man. Women who retain or maintain a native interest in sex seem to have a glow about them and are always attractive. Women who have no interest in sex, or are interested only because of what it can bring them have lost there beauty and attractiveness.
     
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    If she looks older then my mom.
    That's my policy.
    My mom only looks in her late 20's, but shes pushing 50.

    I got lucky and got the young people's genetics wahoo. Only me and my sister got it older bother and oldest sister did not. :biggrin1:

    You can bet the Los Angeles County Sheriff's are bias profiling me.

    Next time it happens I going to report it .
    Over the past few year I been stopped a few times because of it. Because using the weather as a excuse to stop me is lame.
     
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    I guess by definition, I would be considered past my prime. I'm not yet 40 but damn close! I have surgical scars and a few stretch marks. Both from becoming a mom. I wouldn't trade my body or face for any other in the world! I have much more confidence now than I did in my twenties and I know I enjoy and appreciate good sex much more now than I ever did then! Course I'm one of those lucky ones who inherited the young looking genes and have been mistaken for a twenty something, lol!
     
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    Past my prime? Yes, my body is not what it was in my twenties or thirties. I'm certainly heavier than I was back then. I no longer stop traffic (and I once did, often!), I have to buy my own drinks now and if there's a cover charge - I'm paying it. But I don't care. I like who I am now - I'm sensual, erotic and sexual. I love the freedom and confidence that being over 40 provides. I'm intelligent and fun and have a lot of people who like or love me. So past my prime? Physically sure - but sexually, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually? I'm just getting started!
     
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    Amen, I love your answer. Unfortunately, it's difficult for many people who are younger and aren't there yet to understand this. There is a self-assurance that comes with age and experience combined which can't be replicated through other avenues. There's a reason they say "life starts at 40". :)
     
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    To me that makes you not past your prime. If I ever make it to Western Canada, not likely, I will buy you a drink, and pay the cover.

    WR

     
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    Reminds me of an old saying:

    "Youth is wasted on the young."
     
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    Sorry to disagree with a few of the guys here, but women past the age of 35 and well into their 40's, 50's and older have often still got it going on! They just need to recognise and work it.
    Sexually and sensually speaking, i think more women are better in touch with themselves and their desires/likes/dislikes/wants/needs/etc past the age of 40 much as La Femme had described. There are some incredibly beautiful and vivacious 'older women' out there that many from the under 30's club could not hold a candle to.
    My only problem really is when certain 'older women' don't quite pull off a look best suited to their age/body type and result in the "mutton dressed as lamb" caricature of what they could be if they were just a little more judicious in their choice of stylings. (Yes Donatella...i'm talking to you!)

    But yeah, big ups to all the fun,fabulous,flirty older women who may be 'past their prime' according to some here, but in all honesty have still got a thing or two, to teach many of us 'wet-behind-the-ears' types.

    Age really is just a number... and as someone once said, 'You're only as old as (the person) you feel! :)
     
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    I consider anyone past their prime if they don't accentuate their assets and move beyond their faults.
     
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    I have seen many older women who are extremely sexy. My new chiropractor is probably into her 40's and she is HOT! I'd do her in a second. And I'd do it repeatedly. She is also super nice and sweet. If she were a bitch, I'd probably have a different opinion about her and wouldn't be in such a rush to fuck her.
     
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    Age isn't the important factor to me. It's how people present themselves... A woman who takes pride in how she looks can look good beyond her 40's. On the flip side of it, some younger women seem too over the top with vanity... To me older women are more attractive as they've lost some of the more juvenile approach to beauty, well usually lol
     
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    IMO, a woman is past her prime when she believes she is, and acts like it.
     
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    A lot of people on here are saying, "Oh man, I know this woman, she is past forty, and I'd do her!!"
    Yeah, but this question is about past their prime. If she looks hot at 40, imagine her in her prime. I know people love to dance around and give diplomatic answers.
    Women can be hot after 40, but if she is, she as probably twice as hot at 20.
     
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    Not being diplomatic I am just not that attracted to women that are less than 30. Of course I am older now, but even in my 20's that was the case. The hip term I guess now is cougar. Too bad I am getting too old to go cougar hunting.

    On the bright side you will never see me being interviewed by Chris Hansen.

    WR

     
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