Patchos banned???

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Or alternatively if we don't like how the site is run we can have our say and maybe Rob will listen to us.

People on all sites can be duplicitious and that doesn't stop with the members.

She doesn't have a filter to prevent the receipt of pms, and when you say we only hear one side the mods don't get to hear the full story in many cases.

In this case I believe Patchos when she says she wasn't warned and that she wasn't harrassing anyone, it would be totally out of character for her to be sly and underhanded, when she has had an issue with anyone she's been upfront about it.

Oh, incidentally I do not have multiple accounts, I am not underage and I categorically state I have not at any time I have been on the site harrassed anyone or received any sort of warning for any type of behaviour.
 

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I get the feeling this was about the "are you a horrible driver" thread...and I'm disappointed if it deteriorated to her getting banned for pointing out inconsistency about why that absurd thread stood there when another exactly like it was in the etc etc. forum. Patch was bold about it...but I agree it appeared that thread stands more out of personal spite, rather than reason. Especially with all of the provocation about her on other threads by both of those mods. I'm disappointed this is how it was handled.

I'll miss my buddy just the same and she does have a fat cock ;)
 
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I can't understand why Patchos has been banned when the whole site is overrun with people who contribute nothing but dissension. In the chat room she's witty, garrulous and helps keep it fun with her great sense of humour, she's only ever biting only when it's been very well deserved. She's one of the honest and good people on the site and I am mightily pissed off that she's been banned when there are dozens of people much more deserving of a ban.
She's straightforward and able to have a disagreement without resorting to puerile insults.
Grrr, the chat room won't be worth visiting any more.


Amen.
 
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Who am I going to jerk off with now?

I can rub one out with you Zoe. :wink:

Therein lies the problem. It was not here. Many people on this site have proven to be duplicitous. Obviously she broke the ToS at some point.
The mods send messages if people are going to be banned, she might have a filter to not receive any PMs. However, when I was a mod here, I learned that many banned people only tell one side of a story and even then, it's not the complete story. They tell their friends one thing, when something completely different happened.

I don't know what the story is here, but obviously she did something to make the majority of the mods ban her.

Rob_E has the final say on anything on this site. We the members don't.
It's not a democracy, it's a one man show and the Mods just execute his wishes. No one is making anyone stay here. If people don't like how the leadership is operating, you don't have to stay.


I have to ask, why does it always boil down to this kind of response?

We know Rob has the final say.
We know we don't have to be here.
We all grasp the concept of a one man show.
We understand there are two sides to every story.

The distinction here is someone who has found favor among her fellow members has ran into a spot of trouble. This is a subject worth discussing as it is a board designed and created so that ideas and opinions can be exchanged.

People are allowed to voice their opinions. As such, we should not be treated as if we're a bunch of peasants running for the windmill with pitch forks and torches in hand. We are not your children to be scolded and warned when voices rise in protest against something that is potentially wrong.

I disagree with the idea that we, the members here, paying and non paying a like do not have a voice here. Without members, what is this place besides virtual real estate?

People make mistakes, it is an imperfect world but do not compound the situation by throwing down the gauntlet of "this or that" simply because a few of us chose to question and or disagree with this situation.

We are just trying to make sense of it. If my contributions in this thread lead you to believe otherwise, you the moderating team are entitled to an apology.

People are going to speak out no matter the governing bodies at large and most certainly in spite of the fact it is a privately owned community/web site.
 
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I gotta stop posting, maybe I`m harrassing someone!!!!????
I`d like to think that this set of mods is righteous....please, don`t make me change my mind!
And if she was harrassing people, let`s hear those "people", where are they? let`s hear their side????
I guess that`s never gonna happen, cause hurt ego is not the same as harrassment!!! Not in my book!!!
Long live Patchio!!!
 

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I can say for a fact that the patchos inthe chat room is very different then the patchos that pms. Her pm messages can be attacking and relentless. I have thick skin so never really cared about her pm abuse.
But..she is def not the angel she is being made to look like.
 

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I can say for a fact that the patchos inthe chat room is very different then the patchos that pms. Her pm messages can be attacking and relentless. I have thick skin so never really cared about her pm abuse.
But..she is def not the angel she is being made to look like.
PLEASE!!!!
i had fight with her in chat, we fought like crazy one day!!!
I have never in my life received a nasty PM from her!!!!
She has balls, she doesn`t "function" that way!!!
If she has something to say to , she does it face 2 face
And if she does say something, believe it or not, she was PROVOKED!!!
 
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lukas I take no side on this matter. I have no personal concern one way or the other.
I"m glad you had a healthy OPEN disputing relationship with Patchos . I am just here to express that that OPEN debate was not always the case with Patchos.